Sexual Arousal & Desire

Posted on the Oct 04, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Today I read a recent post by Dan Savage entitled "Broken". The question begins with: "I am a 23-year-old female, sexually active for seven years, and I can’t reach climax. I am extremely frustrated...
Posted on the Sep 22, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Betty, I am writing with a slight twist on a question you've answered several versions of (and received god knows how many times). I'm a 35 y.o. man, married 11 years, 2 young kids, love my wife....
Posted on the Sep 21, 2011 by Anonymous
So, you have read the previous posts in my sexual dysfunction series, and you have decided that you, dear reader (or someone you know), may have a sexual problem/dysfunction. Now what? If you are...
Posted on the Sep 17, 2011 by Marisa Black
One of the parts I eagerly anticipated about the Bodysex filming was the smell. What would it be like, I wondered, to be naked and aroused with a circle of women masturbating? Not only what would it...
Posted on the Sep 07, 2011 by Anonymous
The year was 1856, and Dr. Horatio Storer was a busy boy, burdened as he was with two very trying patients - a couple of thoroughly intractable nymphomaniacs. Which, within the context of Victorian...
Posted on the Sep 01, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, Ever since my first child was born I lost the intrest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into...
Posted on the Aug 15, 2011 by Solo Sexualist
From the second time I had sex (sex being intercourse) onward, I’ve always had at least one orgasm, and I've been fucking for half a year. Yesterday, that changed.  I was horny...
Posted on the Jul 21, 2011 by Anonymous
Currently, there are two popular ways of thinking about female sexual dysfunction: the traditional DSM-IV perspective that sees it as a medical disorder and a New View approach (which I will be...
Posted on the Jul 14, 2011 by Lawrence Lanoff
This blog is a further exploration of my last post about female sex drive. My friend Reid reidaboutsex.com and I were talking about sexual relationships, and he had a brilliant realization that he...
Posted on the Jul 11, 2011 by Anonymous
Many clients come to see me to help with marital blahs, and deadness and inconsolable partners. What happens when one spouse, or both, have depression; I’m talking the real thing not the occasional...
Posted on the Jul 10, 2011 by Anonymous
Hey, so, yeah. School is ruining my life and I've yet to actually write a complete entry. I have about two more weeks, though (and there's SEVEN tests stuffed into those two weeks) and then I'm back...
Posted on the Jun 30, 2011 by Lawrence Lanoff
Last week, the TV show The Doctors did a segment on the sex-drive-differences between men and women. Their theories were comical. Mainly because they continue to look at sex through stereotypical...
Posted on the Jun 29, 2011 by Anonymous
Female sexual dysfunction has been in the news a lot in the last few years. In March 1998, a little blue pill was introduced that revolutionized our world. We now had erections on demand, and things...
Posted on the Jun 20, 2011 by Anonymous
I recently came across some interesting information. I just found out about Yahoo Clues. This is a keyword search tool that gives a webmaster demographic information about the type of person who is...
Posted on the May 28, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, Wow that sounds so informal. I absolutely love your advice and I've come to get my own from you. I'm 19 years old and my s.o is 23. We have been together for a year and two months, and...