Relationships & Polyamory

Posted on the May 15, 2012 by VirginMonoblogger
By nature, I'm just not a big risk taker. My prudish nature coupled with sheltering parents has left me with no sense of adventure. As I've said before, I consider not shaking the orange juice...
Posted on the May 10, 2012 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty. I was hoping you would be able to help me. My boyfriend and I are both 21, and have been together for a little over eight months. We love each other etc. etc. Despite having an extremely...
Posted on the May 08, 2012 by Princess
It’s finally come to pass. I might actually have an opportunity to have sex – with someone I like – who may end up being someone I keep. This, she says, after one date. With advancing age comes the...
Posted on the Apr 27, 2012 by Caitlin Bovard
If you’ve seen How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days (RIP so many brain cells), you may remember Kate Hudson’s character buying a “relationship fern” in an attempt to drive a man to dump her. Though that...
Posted on the Apr 17, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Dolphins are gay. Really. That is one of the many surprising findings researchers discovered studying the behaviors of 120 bluenose dolphins. They observed a complex “open society” in which male...
Posted on the Apr 10, 2012 by Betty Dodson
I was watching your show on youtube..."How did we meet...Are we having sex" and while you were talking about having sex with Carlin you mentioned that you personally cannot sustain sex after five...
Posted on the Apr 05, 2012 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty and Carlin,
Posted on the Apr 04, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
With tears tumbling, we comforted our kitty gently, thanking her for the love she brought us as life slipped away from her frail, tired body. My girlfriend and I have been dealing with the loss of...
Posted on the Apr 03, 2012 by Liandra Dahl
I've been noticing a fair amount of critiquing women over the last 15 years I've been an adult. Some of it is shere misogyny and some of it is about cultural stuff that women 'generally' perpetuate...
Posted on the Mar 30, 2012 by Caitlin Bovard
You’ve gotta be able to give and take in order to have balance in a healthy relationship. With this comes a delicious sort of tension in any romantic exchange between partners: the push and pull. So...
Posted on the Mar 23, 2012 by Carlin Ross
I found this picture and quote by Marguerite Duras and it just resonated with me: “You have to be very fond of men. Very, very fond. You have to be very fond of them to love them. Otherwise they’re...
Posted on the Mar 14, 2012 by Carlin Ross
Wow...watching this trailer sent chills down my spine.  The whole fetishizing of asian women - the myth that they're subservient - and the fact that the documentarian is a chinese american...
Posted on the Mar 07, 2012 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, I have an idea, and want to get your input. My boyfriend and I are middle aged professionals separated by great distance. We get together every few months and have fantastic sex. We’re...
Posted on the Mar 05, 2012 by Betty Dodson
My husband & I have been together 20 years. My husband had only been with 5 partners before marriage, and I lost count at about 40. Honesty was always my first priority, and I made that...