PC Muscle & Vaginal Tightness

Betty,

I am currently reading up, in bits and pieces, on the famous and inquisitive 19th century soldier, explorer, ethnographer, liguist and diplomat Captain Sir Richard Francis Burton, of Arabian Nights, Kama Sutraand Perfumed Garden fame. Sexology was his life-long passion. He claimed to have participated during his travels in numerous sex acts with the native poeple of India, the Middle East and East Africa, as he describes it. Can that be true???

He claimed in a letter to a friend that the "Orientals" (Indians) fuck foremost by the woman straddling the man and just sitting on his cock, without any thrusting. The woman brings the man to orgasm solely by rythmically contracting her vagina (with her PC muscles) while he is inside her.

Dear Doctor Betty

I am a very sexual person, and (9 years ago) when i lost my virginity, it literally look weeks and weeks of trying before i was able to properly lose my virginity (and break the hymen) my bf could only insert one finger into me at a time, and i was told i was very tight during intercourse. I gave birth to my son 7 years ago, and (with lack of education) and suffering from Post natal depression and just not caring about myself, i had never heard of Kegel excersizes, so I didnt do them.

Dear Betty and Carlin

I am writting because i have a doubt, and I didn't find much information about it in internet.

Sometimes, when i need to pee I get a very intense feeling, similar to an orgasm, in my whole body, specially in my nipples. The feeling gets more intense if I am aroused, but sometimes I get it without beeing aroused.  The feeling is great, so I usually try to enjoy it, but my question is why does this happen to me, and does it have a bad consequence?

My lover says that her husband can tell if she has had sex with a different man because she does not feel the same when having intercourse. That she is rather loose according to husband. My lover states that I'm much larger so would this have made a difference?

Does masturbation help keep your vagina tight?

What am I doing wrong? I tend 2 urinate when using my magic wandor even using my hands. I've even done this while i was getting oral sex!! This is very embarrassing when your with someone!! HELP!!

I was sexually abused from a very young age (vaginal penetration at the age of 3) and have been told by more than one partner that I feel "loose". I don't always feel much at the lower part of my vagina, especially when on top, even if my partner has a large penis. I have been in therapy to deal with the sexual abuse for the past 2 years and am finally in a place to accept and explore my sexuality on my own terms. But this is very embarrassing for me.

Hi Betty: If there is anyone in the world who knows vaginas, it's you. Here is my question -- I have had a prolapsed rear vaginal wall for many years. It is now starting to bother me as I feel it going lower. A few months ago, there was a Beverly Hills plastic surgeon on with Oprah speaking of his laser method off tightening vaginas. Of course, he was talking about his clients who want to have a tight one again like it was originally. Do you know of this technique?

Betty,
I am a 31 old female who has never been fully penetrated. I find full penetration is too painful. Is there something wrong with me? I have been to the doctor and nothing physically is wrong with me. I would love to experience true sex. Can you please help me?

I had a question about Kegel Excersizes, I have heard of females masturbating without direct touch and was asking if/how its possible to do it without anything touching you. I speculate that Kegels can give an orgasm/make you cum if done repeatedly, but I could be wrong.