Pain During Penetration

Posted on the Aug 25, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Hello,  I have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now, and we are starting to have sex. But for me it is not pleasurable and hurts a lot. The pain has nothing to do with not being...
Posted on the Jul 28, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, I recently started having sex almost 2 months ago, the problem i have is that sometimes he will penetrate so hard that it feels like it is hitting my stomach, like a wall, and i thought...
Posted on the Mar 12, 2010 by Betty Dodson
I'm a lady in my early 20's and I've experienced pain during sex since I started havin' it when I was 15-ish. At that time I was very bad at setting boundaries and would agree to have sex when I didn...
Posted on the Jan 24, 2010 by Betty Dodson
You will need a few basic items. If at all possible set aside at least an hour in a warm room that's completely private. Turn off the phone and put your cell phone in another room. Wash you hands and...
Posted on the Dec 24, 2009 by Betty Dodson
I myself was diagnosed with Interstitial Cystitis and Vulvodynia in January of 2004. The two syndromes seemed to be commonly linked together. I had a history of chronic UTI's and IBS and some other...
Posted on the Aug 25, 2009 by Eric Amaranth
Thought everyone would be interested in my first personal experience with what I'd call structural pain from consistent intercourse. By structural i mean, discomfort felt inside my penis, not on its...
Posted on the Jul 08, 2009 by Betty Dodson
I recently discovered this web page and your writing - and I was really excited because I find the work you do so amazing. I agree with many of the things you say about sex and about relationships in...
Posted on the Jun 29, 2009 by Betty Dodson
I am 71 years old, had a hysterectomy 30 years ago, been off estrogren for 10 years and not had intercourse in many years, and before that infrequently. The last time I attempted intercourse it was...
Posted on the Jun 16, 2009 by Betty Dodson
Please help! I'm 26 years old and my sex life with my boyfriend is being ruined! I keep getting really sore through sex to the point where we sometimes have to discontinue. I've been tested for...
Posted on the Apr 10, 2009 by Betty Dodson
Oh Goddess divine Betty, I have problems with penetration. I've been sexually active for four years, and it's always been an issue. It really hurts when a guy enters me, and I feel really tight. But...
Posted on the Dec 03, 2008 by Betty Dodson
i like sex. my wife desire is low and when she has sex it is painful and she would rather have nothing inserted. main position is like missionary but her legs closed and straight while my...
Posted on the Nov 24, 2008 by Betty Dodson
Let me first say that I love everything you have done for the sex-positive community. Your hard work and dedication are inspirational to me! I seem to be having a problem which has never before...
Posted on the Oct 14, 2008 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, Whenever I have sex and my partner thrusts, I experience pain as though he has reached the end of my vaginal canal and is maybe hitting my cervix. I'd rather sex not be inhibited by...
Posted on the Jul 31, 2008 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty, I am 57, and in the past 2 years was diagnosed with (not severe) rear pelvic wall collapse, and the beginnings of a prolapsed uterus. This discovery was made when I began to have pain...
Posted on the Apr 14, 2008 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty Firstly may I say many thanks for providing such an upfront, honest and women orientated service; in a world where sex is supposidly everything and everywhere it becomes aparent very...