Overcoming Shame & Guilt

Posted on the Dec 31, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Friday night I was eating at my favorite late night Hollywood Thai dive. Next to me was a table of Thai boys. Very gay Thai boys meeting up after the clubs closed. And I thought to myself, “how...
Posted on the Dec 24, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
It’s Christmas time. You know what that means? It means it’s time for the de-bunker to call-out Santa. Hey, at least I'm an equal opportunity myth de-bunker. So, here’s the problem with all myths...
Posted on the Dec 21, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I was talking to my girlfriend about the end of the world. She’s visiting family across the country and I’m in LA. She said, if the Mayan’s really were right, that we would each start driving across...
Posted on the Dec 13, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
It’s been a while since I've blogged. I’m balls deep in the cave writing my latest book. But I had to come out of the cave to make the most public statement I can make here on Dodson and Ross. Are...
Posted on the Nov 06, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I’m just home from the Yoga, Sex, Feminism conference in Dallas. It was incredible - beyond my expectations-and my body is abuzz with energy. I love being around people who get that pleasure, bliss...
Posted on the Nov 04, 2012 by Betty Dodson
What a way to support World Vegan Day! Thanks Mark Simpson. I'd eat up everyone of those Darling Macho Dick Swinging Men:
Posted on the Oct 31, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I have an idea. And I’m going to share it with you in a moment. But first, I want to talk about a change that I see happening in the myth of the female psyche. The current myth is that open female...
Posted on the Oct 13, 2012 by Anonymous
There have been times in the comment sections here that people have made broad statements about Christians being uniformly sex negative and blindly promoting abstinence-only sex education. When I see...
Posted on the Oct 12, 2012 by The Intern
Three months ago I told Carlin that I'd bought two and a half hours of tantric massage and I was going to blog about it. There were no available times until October, so of course I forgot. Until two...
Posted on the Oct 10, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Ahh, the power of difficult discussions. I’ve been thinking about something sitting like a splinter in my consciousness. It’s about ownership. Ownership of the vagina and the womb. What I am...
Posted on the Oct 04, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Have you ever been around somebody who is criticizing you a lot? especially in a relationship? If you are like most people, this is very disturbing to your sense of well being. Why? Because when...
Posted on the Sep 26, 2012 by Alix Marchetti
My love of the strap-on (giving or receiving) has been a bone of contention with every lesbian lover I’ve had. Clouded by insecurities, ignorance and inability to appreciate male genitalia, my...
Posted on the Sep 19, 2012 by Carlin Ross
Last Friday I was on my FB page when Betty caught a glimpse of one of my MIMP pictures. She hit the roof. It came from a place of love. She was concerned that I was positioning myself as a "pin-up...
Posted on the Sep 19, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I was thinking about communication in relationships this week. Communication, sexual, verbal, non-verbal, touch, emotional, energetic, and otherwise, all either a) add to our experience of well-...
Posted on the Sep 02, 2012 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr Betty, Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable. I've always been a sexual person. As a child I...