Overcoming Shame & Guilt

Posted on the Apr 05, 2013 by Carlin Ross
There are no slutty sex acts.
Posted on the Mar 28, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
When we roll off the main road, it’s like entering a desert wonderland. Within an hour we are in another world. One inhabited by joshua trees, African mules and tiny desert creatures. Skies of blue...
Posted on the Mar 25, 2013 by Betty Dodson
Hi, I am an 18 year old boy, and will soon be attending university. I feel guilty and sick about a few things I have done privately, that are disgusting or unorthadox. I feel like these things were...
Posted on the Mar 17, 2013 by Carlin Ross
I keep finding these beautiful photographs of sapphic love.
Posted on the Mar 15, 2013 by Carlin Ross
Marisa sent me the link to this video.  I opened it at Betty's but only watched half of it because I was headed to a meeting.  When I got home and watched the second half, I was amazed....
Posted on the Mar 05, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
Here’s what I see. Strong, powerful, amazing women, trying to find their way through the quagmire of female sexuality in America. It’s confusing. I get it. Women are trying to figure out how to...
Posted on the Feb 28, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
I’m currently sitting at a restaurant near The Pentagon writing this blog. I just had the most amazing discussion with an ultra conservative, right wing, Born Again Christian, fundamentalist Special...
Posted on the Feb 23, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
My girlfriend and I were watching the season premiere of The Amazing Race last night. While I slept, my unconscious churned on an issue that’s been on my mind for a while. It’s something that’s been...
Posted on the Feb 15, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
On the heels of The President’s State of The Union address, I wanted to speak today about The Sexual State of The Union. As far as sexual rights go, I am literally overwhelmed by the continued war...
Posted on the Feb 05, 2013 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty, I was raised in a very sex-negative, abusive environment, and was then raped repeatedly when I was 14 while in a domestically abusive relationship for about 5 months. I feel that I...
Cathrynn Brown
Posted on the Jan 24, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
It is a twisted form of logic, one that potentially imprisons female victims of incest and rape for having abortions, that is behind state Rep. Cathrynn Brown’s (R) House Bill 206. In classic double...
Posted on the Jan 23, 2013 by Anonymous
One of my few guilty pleasures (as in I actually feel pretty guilty about it) is celebrity gossip on the Internet. This is not a plug for this site, because I think it's disgusting* but I frequently...
Posted on the Jan 14, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
We can always be our own worst critics. However, recent studies show that being hyper-critical of ourselves can be detrimental to our health. So now I’m going to let you in on a secret. My biggest...
Posted on the Dec 31, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Friday night I was eating at my favorite late night Hollywood Thai dive. Next to me was a table of Thai boys. Very gay Thai boys meeting up after the clubs closed. And I thought to myself, “how...
Posted on the Dec 24, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
It’s Christmas time. You know what that means? It means it’s time for the de-bunker to call-out Santa. Hey, at least I'm an equal opportunity myth de-bunker. So, here’s the problem with all myths...