Overcoming Shame & Guilt

Posted on the Feb 17, 2015 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr.Betty, I am 20 years old and I have masturbated since 14, only clitoris stimulation and I can reach orgasm. However everytime I have sex or even masturbate I clench the anus muscles so I don'...
Posted on the Jan 30, 2015 by Natasha
When I was19 I travelled to East Africa hoping to live with and learn from other cultures. Arriving in Kenya I was told about a semi-nomadic tribe called the Maasai, who lived in Southern Kenya and...
Posted on the Jan 15, 2015 by bila kolbe
I recently contacted a news reporter who had sent out an inquiry looking for ways to improve brain health. I’m sure many of the respondents to his inquiry will touch upon diet, exercise, meditation,...
Posted on the Jan 06, 2015 by Lawrence Lanoff
I was at a New Year’s party last week, speaking with a close friend. She asked me what I thought about cheating. She said she felt guilty for stepping out on her boyfriend which lead to him breaking...
Posted on the Dec 12, 2014 by Carlin Ross
Betty met Polly Superstar and felt like she was meeting her past self.  Polly runs high-end sex parties across the globe and recently wrote a book about her life story and her adventures....
Posted on the Dec 02, 2014 by Carlin Ross
Over the past 8 years, we've received numerous requests to address sexual abuse here on D&R. Betty's position is that we've all been abused by the culture by the lack of sex education and the...
Posted on the Nov 26, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty, I'm 19 years old and I have a boyfriend of 1 and 1/2 years. I think of myself as open minded but something my boyfriend told me awhile back has really been bothering me. I'll listen and...
Posted on the Nov 05, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hi Dr. Betty, I am a female medical student who is almost halfway through my training to become a physician. First off, I know that you probably receive many emails with the same sentiment, but I...
Posted on the Nov 04, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, Firstly, I realise that I'm a lucky man - I have regular sex with my partner and she usually orgasms from penetration alone! But I think our sex life could be even better. I'd love my...
Posted on the Oct 25, 2014 by Lawrence Lanoff
I’m just back from teaching in Israel and I realized something profound about people on this trip that I want to share. Humans are tribal by nature. We enjoy small groups of like minded people. We...
Posted on the Oct 16, 2014 by Anonymous
LAST Friday’s pod cast that applauded Carlin’s little one masturbating in utero, was surely cause for celebration. It proved, once again, that touch, even before birth, is a natural and comforting...
Posted on the Oct 02, 2014 by Edgerman58
It wasn't until C and I actually took the first, and tentative, steps into cuckoldry that I grasped just how much of a voyeur I think I have always been. Sure, I had watched my fair share of porn,...
Posted on the Sep 25, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Dr, Betty this question is about consent, a friend showed me this video and I'm not sure I quite agree with everything. Laci green consent 101: I understand consent and asking permission to enter...
Posted on the Sep 07, 2014 by Carlin Ross
In keeping with Friday's video on keeping the "slut" alive in the bedroom, I had to post Ann Friedman's support for feminists allowing themselves to be objectified within their relationships:
Posted on the Aug 06, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, This is not a question but I am re-emphasizing your great contribution to culture. Freud claimed that civilization repressed instincts to form itself and people are therefor frustrated...