Labia

Is it normal for my labia to be bumpy? I have had numerous exams and I had a std test last year and have only had sex with one person since. It came back with nothing. Should I be concerned? it has been bumpy ever since I can remember.

I know all women's vaginas are "normal" no matter what size, shape, etc. their inner lips are, but I am still uncomfortable. When I was very young (perhaps 5-7 years old) I guess I was just curious about how I was growing down there, and I would pull on one of my inner labia. I did this for a while. Eventually, I noticed it was stretched; I've had asymmetrical labia ever since - one side is long, thick and dark while the other stays within the outer labia, is thin, smooth and light-colored.

I have dark spots or patches on my inner labia. The are not raised and don't cause any irritation. Is this normal, could this be cancer?

My husband just accused me of being unfaithful. He said that 2 weeks ago the day after my period he felt me and my Labia were loose and fluttery like i had just finished sex. We have been married 19 years, i have never cheated but i cannot convince him of this. What changes do labia go through on a monthly cycle.

I am a monogamous 46 yr old hetero male that just today got so sick of what I consider ridiculous anti-SEXUAL behavior. For about the umpteenth time in my life, my partner shared that she was ashamed of her inner labia.

I want to speak out to every woman in this world and tell you all that "I INSIST ON SOMETHING I CAN WRAP MY LIPS AROUND AND TONGUE AND SUCK." I am only one man but I am here to tell you ladies, "STOP TRYING TO GIVE ME LESS OF YOU TO LICK!"

I have dated many women in my life and have also been married. I love to go down and must say that the more of you there is to lick and tongue and play with, the longer I will stay there without any boredom. This is unusual for me to be so bold and comment on this site, but maybe my present, last or possibly next girlfriend will read this and realize a lot of men don't want a PUSSY that isn't there.

The other day my boyfriend commented on my labia minora.. telling me it was longer than normal... or that it looked "weird". I suppose it does look kinda weird.. I guess I just never really thought about it because no one really brought it to my attention. He thinks it's that way because "I was promiscuous in my past"... even though I wasn't and have never been. Would too much sex with your partner though stretch or make your labia longer or seem to hang lower?

I don't like the looks of my cunt. It has diffent size lips and swells up more on one side. I do not really have any external lips, just mostly a big buffy mond.

hi there,

i'm not sure what i'm hoping you'll tell me but i think i'll feel better with your advice. i noticed in my early teens that one of my labia was slightly larger than the other and discoloured. It seems to have been steadily getting larger and hanging down more and more over the years to the point that i've been too embarrassed to look down there for at least a year. after exploring your website last night i decided it was time to have a look and i cant believe how bad it has gotten. somehow it now looks like i have 3 labia minora.

My labia minora is longer than my labia majora. I am a little self concious and have been told it's abnormal. I am to embarrased to see a doctor and it really affects my love life... Is it abnormal at all? If so, what can be done to help. Thank you.

As you know from my previous emails, I am now successful in achieving orgasm where I was not before. I now have another question. I know you say every woman's pussy is unique, but I have not yet seen one quite like mine either in your forum or other pictures. My inner lips hang sort of like flaps when the outer lips are pulled apart. My clitoris is hidden deep up inside of them even then, and when not pulled apart, it sort of looks like the longer flap is a tongue sticking out of my pussy. I once asked my OBG/YN who seemed rather uncomfortable when I did ask and skirted the question. Most of my life, I have felt this was abnormal. Until recently, I thought I had empty "ball sacs" hanging there.