Your partner is missing a crucial detail pertaining to something your body and/or your mind really enjoys or needs for satisfying sex/orgasm. The two of you are into communicating, so you tell them...
I am 40 yrs old, handsome, small muscular build and well endowed. My wife is 48yrs old, little chubby,Very attractive woman, we have no kids and married 16yrs. We have not had sex or been intimate...
Dear Dr. Betty,
I want my girl friend of 7 months to be able to orgasm during sex (she's 53). She can only orgasm during oral sex. I like it but it takes so long that I get very tired and so focused...
No one talks about it. It makes the ego sting when what one does well in bed fails. Blame is placed on the other person when much better responses exist. Here are some tips for dealing with this...
Hi Dr. Betty,
I'm 22 years old and have been masturbating since at least age 3, when I remember getting "caught" by my parents. They encouraged me to explore and do whatever feels best but in the...
Hmmm where to start. Purge. After years of very bad sex with men - quick and fulfilling for one, I discovered my clitoris (with your help) and that I really like girls. I'm very proficient at sex...
Dear Betty (and Carlin!)
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. I love him very much and one of the things he loves about me is that I am a proud feminist who is happy to be...
Hi Dr. Betty,
I am a 19 year old female who identifies as lesbian. I have been with my girlfriend for just over 11 months now, and I have never loved someone the way that I love her. Our friends are...
I've been with my husband for almost 4 years now, and I started using a vibrator for a little extra fun. After a week of using it during sex I have been unable to have sex without it because it...
Dear Betty,
Main problem: I can never have an orgasm with my boyfriend. Even though I’m happy with my sex life with or without an orgasm it’s traumatizing my boyfriend. It effects him so hard. To the...
Dear Dr Betty,
Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable.
I've always been a sexual person. As a child I...
Hi Betty! You are a goddess! It is an honor to be writing to you! You inspired me when I was a younger woman to buy a vibrator and achieve my first orgasm. Your smarts and encouragement have been...
Dear Betty,
I have taken your advice on learning more about our bodies and our vagina, exploring all around even with a vibrator. I read your article on how to orgasm and it has educated me more. I...