Hi Dr. Betty -
I am almost 31 yo and about 9 months ago, I decided to explore my sexuality and started exploring masturbation. I learned that I can have orgasm (yes!) but I can only do it watching...
Hi Betty!
I'm a 16 year old girl who has masturbated most of her life. I discovered my clit at a really young age (like 3) and have been masturbating nearly daily ever since. My family is pretty...
Naomi Wolf's latest book Vagina: A New Biography has reignited the whole clit vs. vag debate. According to Naomi, the vagina is the source of female creativity...the window to our souls. She...
Hello,
Since I came into awareness of sex and masturbation I've been bothered by the fact that I have little, and sometimes painful, sensation in my clitoris. Until very recently, I believed I was...
If religion and government are insistent on holding the key my vagina, they should first learn how to unlock it.
Whether you believe the origin of our existence came from an atomic phenomenon, or a...
Dear Dr. Betty
I have a great, happy 4-year marriage, besides the sex. I do have a high libido, and get aroused and wet easily. But... once my husband starts touching my genitals, everything goes...
Hi Dr. Betty,
I'm a humongous fan of yours and you have completely changed my outlook on sex, love, and life in general. So thank you! I have a question for you. When I stand up with my legs pressed...
Penis… Penis… PENIS!!!
All you fellow fans of The Penis Game out there will pick up what I’m throwing down when I say that penises can be pretty funny. We draw them in foggy windows, find them...
Dear Betty,
First off I've been visiting your site every day for a while now, and I want to thank you again for the important work you and Carlin do.
My story is thus: after getting caught up in the...
My best friend and I have been fooling around a lot, he has always been a good listener and he really cares about me. BUT. he will try to get me to come and will rub my vulva really fast and hard and...
Dear Betty and Carlin,
I am writing to tell you of my project as your work played a part in its creation. Betty, your drawings are beautiful!
I am also an artist, primarily figurative, as well as a...
This is an illustration by Suzann Gage from A New View of a Woman's Body (a must-have in your sex positive feminist book collection).
Women have nearly as much erectile tissue as men.
And here...
i had FGM when i was 12, now i'm 22 and never had any kind of sexual experience in my life, never been touched by a guy, i'm afraid i won't feel anything. i tried masturbating and there's nothing, it...