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My name is Anne, and I just ran across these forums, you all seem like a nice group of people here, from reading your posts.  These forums are wonderfully educational and I am always glad to find sites such as this. Props to the admins here for all their hard work for this resource.

My name is Ana O. I'm 22 years old and I've live in harlem, New York City the past 3 years. I'm an artist and feminist. I study photography, and gender studies at the City College of New York. I'm in the mist of organizing a take back the night in harlem in response to the serial rapist who terrorized the community at the beginning of the fall season. I'm very interested in feminist politics and I am always willing to learn more.  I recently broke of from the roman catholic church, having felt not like a very good catholic for years, but certainly feeling the guilt which has plagued my views on relationships and sex since I was a child. I was taught to find a man, please him, marry him, pop out kids, feed everyone, and die.

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Hello! I'm Longlanyu. I'm from China. I'm Chinese.There is not Chinese version of sex for one.

Hi all! I've enjoyed Betty's writings off and on for years; imagine my delight when I swung by her website and found a new one with forums!

I'm female, in my 20s, married to my perfect storm of hummina: tall, skinny, dark, smart, goofy, shy . . . and totally into me. I feel very fortunate to have sex as such a big and positive part of my life.

While normally I suffer from insufficient reserve, I generally don't talk much about sex with my friends or family. I can't help but notice how uncomfortable it makes them, and that makes me uncomfortable; to be fair, I too cringe when I think about most of the people I'm close to doing . . . things. This might be a good place to get my talk on.

My name is Lazan! I am a new member of about 3 weeks. I have enjoyed looking around and reading peoples contributions. Masturbation has been a large part of my life since I came out of the Navy in 1967 at the age of 22. I have enjoyed several relationships with ladies and it was very pleasuresome and rewarding. It was a great growing experience for me. But not all relationships last. Greatfully masturbation has lasted. It has been a type of needed friend to me. Betty you have been helpful to some many women and I am sure many men have benefitted also. I will visit your web-site from time to time. It is nice to have people like you and those who contribute that have open minds and do not lookdown or talkdown to people such as me. Lazan!

I'm sorry to put you on the spot like this, but did you get my email from the other night? Because I had gotten yours, and I wanted to know your what your response was.

Have I been blacklisted on this site??? What am I missin' here????? Was it the way I introduced myself ,as 'buttlover'?????What??????

Okay, maybe I'm a little saddened that nobody seems to show any interest in my fetish, but I don't want any sympathy from any of you. I would just like to know if I should just drop it already, and be done with it. I'm tough enough to handle your criticism, whatever it is. Perhaps, I've become a bit of a pest or like a hemroid you can't get rid of. Man, I can be such a whiner!!!!!!!!!! Though,I'd like to @ least end this on a good note. Just tell me what you think I should do. 

Wow: It's great to find this wonderful site.  Betty Dodson's videos are so amazing.  I've learned so much about women from Betty's videos.  I wish Betty and Carlin would host some workshops for us guys - photo sessions, grooming and all.  You know, men's genitals are as different and unique as women's genitals.  And although many people think us guys all just "jerk off" the same way, I'm amazed to see and read on the internet about the variety of techiques men use to get off.  Its not just the girls who get to have all of the fun...  Thinking about posting some self pics, just need a little encouragement to get up the guts to take the pics - never done a cock portrait before.  Anyway, HI!

Just a couple of quick questions. Does anybody on this forum believe that the 'buttblaster' idea has enough flare to become MARKETABLE ? I mean, not for my sake, but for the publics'. If it was explored through step-by-step sex guides, or standard porn. I wonder about possible health risks and obscentity laws. But I don't believe it's anymore obscene than alot of the porn that's already out there. Furthermore, I have not been made aware of any health troubles that may have occured in either of the two women I practiced this with. I'm sure I would have been notified shortly afterwards, if there were.

I would like to share with you all (for a minute, or so) something that is not directly related to the sexual topics we share on this forum, but I believe is certainly relavant to this forum and everyone throughout man/womankind. It is a theory in which I believe in wholeheartedly, and for me it sums up a whole lot of confusion and misunderstandings. I was written by a man named Herbert Spencer. It is a GENTLE CHALLENGE for us all to interperate.This is a vital reminder for me as well......................................Here goes:

"THERE IS A PRINCIPLE WHICH IS A BAR AGAINST ALL INFORMATION, WHICH IS PROOF AGAINST ALL ARGUMENTS AND WHICH CANNOT FAIL TO KEEP A MAN IN EVERLASTING IGNORANCE-------AND THAT PRINCIPLE IS---------CONTEMPT PRIOR TO INVESTIGATION."

Hello,.......Wild Orchid, we haven't posted each other directly, yet. I figured I would introduce myself to you.

I was wonderin' if you were gettin' any of this new info I've sent in. From what I've read about you, it sounds like you'd be very interested. Anyway, good luck. I wish you well.  

To answer your question, Christina, I think they just appreciated the whole experience. And their reactions seemed real genuine to me; I don't believe they could have faked THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like I mentioned before, the first time I tried it the woman had introduced the idea to me. I mean, it was all upon her request!!!!!!! And she loved to be reamed. Except that she was a bit hefty back there (bless her heart), so it was a bit TIRESOME for both of us. But we both got a real kick out of it, and it turned us on alot.

Mainly, it's an amazing experiance because of the strange vibration, and 'fart-type' sound it makes. It's pretty loud, and mind-blowing, as well as butt-blowing!!!!!! HA!!!!...............No, truley it is. 

Alright, I've hesitated long enough to share this with you. I believe we can be mature adults about this and actually handle it. So, okay, here is the answer to the mysterious "BUTTBLASTER."

Although, Carlin already has a good idea, I'm not sure if anyone else does.

Basically, a woman (or a man,for that matter)lays on their belly preferably naked from the waist down @ least. Their partner begins to massage and lick thier butt to the point that it is thoroughly wet enough. Then, after a bit of a breather, the 'licking' partner cups their mouth around the persons butthole to where not much air can seep out. They breathe in, and then suddenly THEY BLOW AIR INTO THIER PARTNERS BUTTHOLE WITH ALL THEIR MIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Apparently, they must have fallen off into the deep end of the deepest abyss. I'm not sure what's wrong.
Anyway, I wanted to apologize to Carlin and anyone else whom I may have offended by my inquiry. It was not my intention @ all to disgust or annoy anyone. I am just a small, single gentleman with a definate passion. I know women come first here and I am not one of them. But I have a real sexy idea I'd like to share, that is all about sensuality and not humiliation or embarassment. I hope you will get this and hear me out. Thanks, again. Here goes nothin', or somethin'.