Sexual Arousal & Desire

Posted on the Dec 01, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, My wife and I have had some friction in our relationship lately and could really use some advice. A few months ago, we decided to explore the “lifestyle” scene and went to a few house...
Posted on the Nov 22, 2010 by Betty Dodson
I have a question! I'm 23 years old and live with my fiance. My sex drive is through the roof and to my fiance he almost thinks its like a burden. He hasn't actually said that, but he can always tell...
Posted on the Nov 17, 2010 by LilithLand
Today, I masturbated for the first time in at least a three weeks. Now, that may not sound like anything to you, but to me it is quite a change. Up until a few years ago, I had a robust sex drive and...
Posted on the Nov 11, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, Firstly, I love and celebrate what you do to free and empower women! I have a query. I am 49, in perimenopause, with erratic periods, sometimes quite heavy and other times non-existent. I...
Posted on the Nov 08, 2010 by Carlin Ross
Scientists have been doing MRI brain scans to determine what really happens in a woman's brain when she orgasms. I'm not sure that I would be able to orgasm in a MRI machine but I'm thankful that...
Posted on the Nov 01, 2010 by Carlin Ross
UK Broadcaster and writer Stephen Fry has challenged feminists with his recent comments about female sexuality. According to Stephen, women see "sex as the price they are willing to pay for a...
Posted on the Oct 21, 2010 by Princess
There’s this thing, this concept, called “DESIRE.” There’s this other thing called “AROUSAL.” Interesting that these things appear related but they are not always. Also, of interest is that they...
Posted on the Oct 11, 2010 by Eric Amaranth
Like I said two blog posts ago, it's fairly well-known that quality dark chocolate creates feelings of satisfied contentment, very similar to the same feelings created by great sex, orgasms, and/or...
Posted on the Oct 03, 2010 by VirginMonoblogger
Dear Guy in the Gym Who Waved at Me From His Treadmill: I appreciate the smile and wave. It was really sweet. You even took the work out bike next to me and kept glancing. But, seriously? The gym is...
Posted on the Sep 30, 2010 by Cristina Bellodi
The results are in!  973 people have taken part in the Women and Sex survey and I appreciate very much everybody's contribution to my research. 61% defined themselves as heterosexual, 34% as...
Posted on the Sep 25, 2010 by Princess
Let's talk "Sex Addiction." We can also talk "Porn Addiction." But we do really need to talk. These days people seem to have "addictions" to just about anything. Some of these things are jokes, like...
Posted on the Sep 25, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty, My question is quite simple: I've read many things about the pill and everything was quite confusing, unclear and controversial. In your long story of helping women with their orgasms...
Posted on the Sep 20, 2010 by Princess
The truth about men's Viagra et al and women's Zestra doesn't appear to be as well publicized as the product. None, none of these products work unless the user "wants" to have sex with his/her...
Posted on the Aug 24, 2010 by Carlin Ross
Update: over 600 women have answered the survey.  We're going for gold and looking to have 1,000 women respond. Dr. Cristina Bellodi has posted an online survey on Women & Sex. Please support...
Posted on the Aug 07, 2010 by Anonymous
I suffer an interesting issue, and I'm having a hard time trying to figure it out. I am a bisexual and have always had a very high sex drive. I've had a lot of sexual experience in my life, including...