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I'm Back
Posted on the May 26, 2011 by Anonymous
Introducing myself to all of you. I'm 63 years old and I was part of the family of contributors to the old non-legalized genital gallery. My wife and I have been married for 30 of those. She's away...
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Masturbation Saved Our Marriage
Posted on the May 24, 2011 by Betty Dodson
This is less of an 'ask' and more of a 'tell' but here goes. I am sure you are aware that most women lose most (if not all) libido after menopause. My wife lost it all about 18 years ago, and as she...
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Because Who Doesn't Want to be Belle?
Posted on the May 18, 2011 by Carlin Ross
Jennifer Hafer, an economics researcher, analyzed the U.S. prostitution market and found that affluent, educating women are entering the prostitution market: Contrary to assumptions that women enter...
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Male Self Sex Primes Our Libido
Posted on the May 18, 2011 by Lawrence Lanoff
I’ve got the power in my hand. Right now. Before writing, I will often self-pleasure to stimulate focus, creativity, and the feeling of “being centered” in my body. A recent article in Chatelaine...
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An Open Letter to All Sexually Frustrated Husbands on Mothers Day
Posted on the May 08, 2011 by Betty Dodson
I deal with your problem all the time and my answer begins with, “Accept her just the way she is.” Do not put any pressure on her to have sex. Other than cannabis, the only other drug that would...
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Melinda Beck's Article on Health Benefits of Sex - Has the WSJ Been Redeemed?
Posted on the May 05, 2011 by richard chilton
The Wall Street Journal (WSJ) used to be the most tightly-edited newspaper in the United States. Its straight news stories were legendary for being weighted, in a few short sentences, with more...
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Asked My Doctor About My Wife's Loss of Sexual Desire...He Gave Me Viagra
Posted on the Apr 28, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, I'm sure that this is a common problem as people age but seeking help to sexual problems when you are older can be quite disconcerting it seems. In recent years, my wonderful wife who is...
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Women Aren't Sexual Creatures - Why the Extraordinary Lengths to Control Female Libido
Posted on the Apr 22, 2011 by LilithLand
I loved Ryan and Jetha's book on sex and evolution Sex at Dawn, particularly their take on female sexuality. Here is a quote from the book:
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Taking Female Sexuality Out of the “Male” Box
Posted on the Apr 04, 2011 by LilithLand
I just finished reading some of the posts at the apparently defunct blog Ways Women Orgasm Forum, and I was deeply moved by some of the things that the author, Jane, had to say. Probably, because I...
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"I'm Too Fat to Have Sex!" Women, Body Image & Low Desire
Posted on the Mar 21, 2011 by LilithLand
I just came across a non-scientific study sponsored by the "passion pill" Fembido, which found that over 52% of its female participants avoided partner sex because of body image concerns. The Sex in...
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Does Semen Make Women Happy? Plus, How I Bareback Safely
Posted on the Mar 21, 2011 by Eric Amaranth
I've mentioned in previous blog posts how I'm not always impressed by scientific studies of sex and the conclusions they draw. However, there are studies that do impress me and are a benefit to my...
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What's So Arousing About Bad Boys?
Posted on the Mar 08, 2011 by Princess
We all seem to love a bad boy. Some have said that the feminist movement brought on hard women and soft boys – and we’ve know that didn’t work. Dr. Helen Fisher who talks about history, and sociology...
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What is Sex Appeal?
Posted on the Mar 07, 2011 by LilithLand
Hi all, sorry I haven't posted in awhile. I have been in the hospital with gall bladder problems. Essentially, my gall bladder decided to go on a Columbine style rampage with my poor gut as a...
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Too Many Orgasms?
Posted on the Mar 05, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hi there, I'm a man, but a big fan of the work you do and your site. It's helped me greatly in my thinking and understanding. I've recently come across two articles on the Good Men Project that I'd...
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Foods for Sexual Fun
Posted on the Mar 02, 2011 by LilithLand
When you consider how overweight, out of shape, sleep-deprived and just plain overworked the average American is, it's not surprising many people aren't in the mood. We live in a toxic environment...
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