Overcoming Shame & Guilt

Posted on the Sep 25, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Dr, Betty this question is about consent, a friend showed me this video and I'm not sure I quite agree with everything. Laci green consent 101: I understand consent and asking permission to enter...
Posted on the Sep 07, 2014 by Carlin Ross
In keeping with Friday's video on keeping the "slut" alive in the bedroom, I had to post Ann Friedman's support for feminists allowing themselves to be objectified within their relationships:
Posted on the Aug 06, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, This is not a question but I am re-emphasizing your great contribution to culture. Freud claimed that civilization repressed instincts to form itself and people are therefor frustrated...
Posted on the Aug 05, 2014 by Lawrence Lanoff
I’m waiting for a text from a friend. Today is a big day: she’s coming out to her Catholic mom. I want to know how it all goes. This isn’t the first time by the way. She’s tried before. Said the...
Posted on the Aug 01, 2014 by Carlin Ross
Pleasure is the antidote to abuse
Posted on the Jul 24, 2014 by Lawrence Lanoff
Some things just outrage me. Yesterday, on NPR, I heard a 12 year old talk about why she thought “illegals” should be turned away from the US borders. She spoke about how these bad people were...
Posted on the Jul 09, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hi, my name is G and I'm 16 years old. First off, I found yours and Carlin's youtube videos about a month ago, and I am so grateful I did! You two have completely changed my belief of general sex...
Posted on the Jun 23, 2014 by Anonymous
How many who fucked think love making is a mock battle. How many have you fucked seemed to see making love as a game, as play? Sure it is. All full things in life have many dimensions - but first and...
Posted on the Jun 20, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty, My boyfriend & I have been dating for 3 years & we have both had fantasies about having a threesome . We have found someone to do it & he is very attractive along with my...
Posted on the Jun 04, 2014 by Carlin Ross
Caitlin Stasey isn't your every day actress. She plays Kenna in the series Reign, a fictional lady-in-waiting to Mary Queen of Scots, and is quite proud of her steamy sex scenes. In her own words...
Posted on the Jun 02, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, My story is a complicated one but I hope you can help me. I am 42 year old man from London. When I was 20 I got involved with a fundamentalist christian cult. I was only in it for about a...
Posted on the May 29, 2014 by Anonymous
Tantra workshops have caused me extreme discomfort because they make you realize you are fearful and that unwanted recognition of how you have been living makes you angry... then they offer you the...
Posted on the May 14, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hello Dr. Betty I'm a 20yr old guy, I've never been too confident or out going, I come form mixed family, father is Catholic and mother is Jewish and I'm a complete mess. I want to hear your opinions...
Posted on the May 08, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty, I'm 17, and all this discovering of my sexual organ and such, it makes me uncomfortable. Extremely so. There's also the fact that I've looked online many times and it almost seems...
Posted on the May 02, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Hello Dr Betty! My name is L, I'm a 21 year old female. In my early teens I was raped, which led me to being pretty much abstinent until recently. Lately I feel like my sexuality is coming back to...