vaginal barbell

Barbell by Betty Dodson


NOTE: We will not ship barbells outside of the United States due to the large number of missing packages in the past.  We apologize for the inconvenience. 

A Vaginal Exerciser that Doubles as a Dildo Designed by a Woman Sexologist

Barbell by Betty Dodson is also available for sale on Amazon.

How To Use the Barbell

I Decided to Stash My Precious Barbell Somewhere in the Airport Lounge

Wed, 09/07/2011 - 08:16
Submitted by Carlin Ross

This story came in from Jacqui...made my day:

I've had my barbell for ten years, and in the last two years have used it everyday, or every other day. I have traveled twice recently with my beloved barbell in my hand luggage on domestic flights from Sydney to other parts of Australia.

First time, I was questioned about it, but I just said its a barbell and weighs 1 kilo and its stainless steel. The customs guy looked at me strange, and just let me through and I took it on the plane with me.

What Do You Mean When You Say "Lift Up" Your PC Muscle?

Wed, 01/19/2011 - 15:24
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am working towards having more/better orgasms, so I've been using a barbell toy to train my "PC muscle. But I'm confused about the instruction not to "bear down" -- only "lift up!" I seem to be able to only do one thing-- contract or squeeze the muscle, which means I'm clamping "down" on the barbell. I can't lift it up (yet)-- and as I'm enthusiastically practicing I want to be sure I am doing the exercise correctly. Could you clarify? Any tips? Thanks!

Dear Z.

Betty, Need Recommendations for Sex Toy Collection

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Wed, 04/15/2009 - 13:49
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello Dr. Betty!

Before I inquire, I'd like to thank you for the years of sexual liberation and awareness you've provided for women across the globe. My question is in regard to sex toys. I have been trying to find a toy that doesn't look like it belongs in Toys R Us. I was wondering what brands are the best? I found Lelo and Big Teaze to be appealing as they do not look like the cotton candy porno types. Do you have any suggestions? I'm trying to build my chest of goodies!

Dear L,

How Do I Orgasm During Partner Sex?

Fri, 01/09/2009 - 19:08
Submitted by Carlin Ross

It's the #1 question so we had to answer it:


31 & Never Been Penetrated

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Thu, 01/08/2009 - 15:41
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am a 31 old female who has never been fully penetrated. I find full penetration is too painful. Is there something wrong with me? I have been to the doctor and nothing physically is wrong with me. I would love to experience true sex. Can you please help me?

What is The Average Vulva Like?

Fri, 01/02/2009 - 21:04
Submitted by Carlin Ross

It's the New Year. Time to hit all your vulva questions: 

An Anal Invitation from Xandra Part II

Fri, 01/02/2009 - 16:29
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

I twisted the lock on Xandra's door. I brought some new soywax candles this time, and she'd lit them before I came back from washing the vaginal barbell. I crossed the room to the bed and admired the almost six foot tall blond's size six naked figure. She rolled to her stomach. The subtle S-curve from her shoulders to the small of her back was breathtaking. However, not to be too overpowered by beauty, I took a moment to ground myself, then sat down next to her.

Barbell Erotica & Tira's First Oral Orgasm

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Mon, 10/13/2008 - 10:56
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

I slid the white sheet down. On my knees, admiring her curvy and powerful bare legs. Curiosities brushed my mind. Will she struggle against the feelings between her legs? How succulent will her vulva be?

I held the barbell up, opened my mouth, and listened to Tira moan while watching me warm the cool steel inside my mouth with more than an affectionate technique. I went down flat on my stomach, holding the barbell in my mouth like a cigar, looked down her belly and breasts to her face, popped it out like a popsicle, guided the larger ball between her inner lips and let its weight do the rest.