too wet

Hey Dr. Betty,

I am a 23 year old woman who gets very very wet. I have always been this way and never thought anything about it until I was in my first relationship with another woman. She never even got as close to being as wet as me even when she was really turned on and told me she had only been with one other woman who got so wet and she was a squirter. Since then I have met this wonderful guy. He tells me that I feel loose and he slips around a lot.

Hi Betty,

I've been having orgasms for about 6 years now. The first time I had one was with someone else - we both had a "what the heck just happened?!" reaction, since I absolutely soaked the sleeping bag. My orgasms have been like that since - I am definitely a gusher. However, ejaculating is not always an option. I'm spending the next few months away from home - staying with friends, camping, and sleeping in places where excessive use of towels would either be noticed, or not available at all. Can I somehow teach myself to have orgasms without ejaculating?