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Post-Abuse My Vagina is Chronically Tight & Dry

Tue, 02/13/2018 - 08:45
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

As a child and early teen I experienced sexual force by an adult repeatedly. I would squeeze my vagina very tight to prevent penetration. It only angered the adult and ultimately did not prevent him.

As a result when I finally had sex with my someone in my age group as a young adult I cried. Many years later with grown children and I'm menopausal now I find if I am not active my vagina closes up. I have a partner now and after a long time of celibacy he re-opened me and it was very painful.

Is My Hooded Clitoris Keeping Me From Pleasure?

Wed, 11/16/2016 - 08:53
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dearest Betty and Carlin, get a drink, this is a long one.

I am a 63yr old lesbian and I have finally started my journey toward sexual healing and liberation. I discovered your wonderful web site while searching for information on hooded clits. Google had listed it’s best results, when I accidentally dropped my mouse on the keyboard, and up popped your clitoral hood chart page. If that’s not the Goddess sending me to you, I don’t know what is.

I started reading. I read for hours. I cried out of pain, I cried out of joy, I cried out of anger, finally I cried out of sadness that it has taken me 63 years to start this healing.

How Can They Think Long Labia Makes Your Vagina Loose?

Mon, 07/06/2015 - 14:27
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dr. Betty (And Carlin):

Saw this post on Facebook that screenshot a comment on a picture. I agree with the words on the screenshot. But being curious, I looked at the comments. I feel so terribly sad for the women that have to deal with ignorant men that think that the size of their labia actually affect the tightness of their vagina. How in the world are Americans so ignorant when it comes to the female body? This just really makes me angry and sad.

I don't want young women with long labia minora to think they are strange or weird or they need to chop off their lady bits to have a compact pornstar looking vagina. https://www.facebook.com/WhoIsFatal/photos/a.501291586602481.1073741825....

M

Dear M,

What Do I Do With Her Tight Vagina to Help Penetration?

Sun, 02/15/2015 - 09:19
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty

I've recently started seeing a girl that has an incredibly tight vagina. I haven't managed to climax yet and it is getting frustrating. Even with mutual masturbation it hasn't happened yet I reckon since i'm worried there may have been some other reason i couldn't maintain erection like ED.

Literally when i get hard after a good amount of foreplay, and she's wet enough i enter her and i just never seem to get it all the way in, but then after a short amount of time my erection goes. Even when she says it is in, it never quite feels like it is, and my feeling is that the tightness is restricting blood flow in my penis and then i start to go flaccid.

What is The Average Vulva Like?

Fri, 01/02/2009 - 21:04
Submitted by Carlin Ross

It's the New Year. Time to hit all your vulva questions: 

My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?

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Sat, 06/14/2008 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am a 60 year old crone.  I take lisinopril, hctz, and lipitor as well as lexapro. I have not had sex with a woman for more than 5 years. I have not touched myself in about 4-5 years. I have been very asexual in mind and body. I have been "dry" a very long time. I recently met the woman of my dreams. I am aroused to passion. We have made love twice. The second time was better for me than the first, however, no orgasm like I remember orgasms! I was actually wet the second time though! I did use a woman's lubricant during the day.