threesome

Who Would Have Thought That My Husband Would Reunite Us

Thu, 12/18/2014 - 08:40
Submitted by Anonymous

We had the opportunity to reunite with the love of my life 20 years ago. I'd been torn from him by conflicts with an old fashioned jealous lover then… when I'd told him happily - and naively - of my discovery.

I'd some vague hope to refresh the memories of my cock sinking in under the weight of my lust and the magnetism of his desire into his ass again.

Who would have thought that my husband would be the one to reunite us, again with lust, multiplied by two, but based again with the same attraction.

Our Asian friend arrived, dressed in black. A gossamer light down jacket, silk scarf.

Why Have Sex with Someone Else?

Wed, 09/17/2014 - 09:33
Submitted by Anonymous

Our working hypothesis: Since what we do in a triple depends on the men we have to work with, let’s be ready to do everything every which way now we'll know better what works - and what doesn’t - for us.

Before doing anything discard all the stereotypes: that it’s supposed to hurt, that that the pain is worth the pleasure, that it only hurts a little while. Those lessons came from people who were fucked poorly.

We usually turn down someone who’s never been fucked and wants to try it. Try it? Are we kidding here? This person obviously has no clue to how key fucking and being fucked are to pleasuring. To have a great fuck you have to yearn for it, yell for it - not "try it."

How Do I Broach the Subject of a Threesome?

Mon, 07/14/2014 - 08:03
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I am so glad that I found your site. I love all the great information on here. I have a problem that I know you have heard before but haven't found any direct advice on point yet - there's so much info on here!

Musings on the Third Playmate Experience

Tue, 02/04/2014 - 14:51
Submitted by Anonymous

It seems so ironic that we've discovered that a couple as close as us presents a third playmate with a supremely superior love-making experience. So many more body parts are engaged.

Agendas fall by the side. The element of fun, play, and laughter emerge far more. Things slow down, edge, while much more exploring and experimentation can take place.

One thing is so odd: we're considered the anomaly, while going on the down low, don't ask don't tell, tricking out, and partially open relationships have been the rule.

If I have my way in my speaking out there may be a reassessment as to where couples can take their play and their relationship after the 10 & 15 year mark. It can renew, expand, delight....

Just one of the many themes I've simply blundered into.

Open to Threesome But Don't Want to Ruin Marriage

Tue, 01/14/2014 - 09:52
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty!

I just recently found your site & let me tell you, it is exactly what I've been looking for - an informative, classy site for people who have real sexual questions & concerns. Thank you!

Loved My Threesome. Am I Addicted to the Attention?

Mon, 03/04/2013 - 11:20
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello -

I'm in my mid-30s and have only had one partner. Recently, we decided to explore and participated in a couple threesomes with 2 men. The result? I absolutely loved it. I loved being the center of attention and now I find myself going online everyday figuring out who's next on the Rolodex! I don't know what it's done to me, but I have never been desired by an adult male, during my adult years, and maybe that is what I find so sexy and thrilling. As for the marriage, sex has never been better. Our experiences have turned us both on and further ignited our already sexually active lives.

Nervous About Threesome Because They're More Experienced

Fri, 12/14/2012 - 09:36
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I'm coming at the open relationship thing from an opposite angle from the common question. A close friend of mine is open with her boyfriend and is interested in me to an extent. I'd take her up on it but I am confronted by two insecurities: I'm far less experienced than him and I don't want to strain anything because I don't know the exact boundaries in their openness.

You seem knowledgeable on how this works, but the articles on this site tend to confront openness from the partners' side rather than the fling's side.

Thanks.

Dear G,

Just Beautiful

Mon, 07/30/2012 - 08:02
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Are they poly?  Did they have a threesome?  Are they related?  I don't know.

This moment is just beautiful.

Coney Island 1944

Is It Normal to be Marries & Want A Threesome?

Thu, 09/22/2011 - 16:16
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am a man 37 years old, married for 13 years, but lately I have this desire to have a threesome with two girls. Is this normal? What should I do?

Dear I,

Yes, your desire for a threesome is quite normal. It's the favorite fantasy for most men. The first thing to do would be to discuss this with your wife. She might also be interested. If not, then you can always pay two sex professionals to act out your desire. Or simply keep it as your fantasy material for some hot masturbation.

Dr. Betty

Norway Here We Come

Mon, 08/08/2011 - 14:11
Submitted by Carlin Ross

This is exactly how I feel.  I'm so excited about our trip to Norway.  NRK Television is filming Betty doing a private session with Norway's most popular reality tv star for their series Threesome. 

Betty and I went shopping to coordinate her outfit - she's wearing all black.  Then we're packing sliquids water based lubricant, We-Vibe's new line of vibrators (Betty's new fave), and Betty's vaginal barbell.  I'm going to be on the side lines making sure Betty has everything she needs and her interview is flawless *fingerscrossed*

Any Advice for First Time Threesome?

Fri, 04/01/2011 - 15:22
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I have been with my boyfriend M for 3 and a half years. Recently, he told me he has been fantasizing about having sex with me and other men. We both decided that this sounded exciting. I was just wondering if you have any advice for my first time? I think im okay with anal, vaginal, and double penetration. I need to know how to properly prepare for anal sex, to prevent any embarrassing situations. Also, we were thinking of recruiting M friends for the extra partners...do you think this is a good idea?

Thank you,
B

Dear B,

How Do We Go About "Swinging"?

Wed, 03/02/2011 - 09:29
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi there,

I really like your style, really! Ok here is the issue. My boyfriend and I have done a bit of group sex like threesomes a couple times. O.K. so its been fun for both of us. But, the feeling is that its been like a real good appetizer and going for the main course is going to be real swinging and swapping.

Sooo, two thoughts/questions are dominating our thinking. The first one: is a long term relationship dangerous? I mean I like the idea of having a regular couple, not just one time flings, wouldn't this be better?

The second question is age, we are mid 20's, I really like the idea of swinging with older people 40's or 50's, but then I think a turn on is one thing, but you have to also be social. Is too much age diffrence a problem?

Husband Obsessed with FMF Threesome

Tue, 02/22/2011 - 09:26
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty, My partner of 3 years is obsessed with FFM threesomes. He always calls me Vanilla and makes me feel like I'm inadequate. He has told me his ex wife was very good at picking up women and regularly brought home playmates from nightclubs. He stayed home with the kids.

I took this on as a challenge and signed up on an online dating site, found a suitable lady and we saw her nearly every weekend for a month! He even made me 'take one for the team' and have sex with her alone at her home just to 'keep her on the hook'. I didn't want this as I felt like I was cheating. When I got home he was upset about it too, but said it had to be done.

Unforgettable Realities of an FMF Threesome Part III

Thu, 02/10/2011 - 17:53
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Since I wrote part two of this series, I've been told how me writing erotica on advanced things like threesomes is a bad idea for several reasons: It doesn't apply to most people's sex lives. That it makes me look bad as a professional. That it alienates, intimidates, and scares off those who are just approaching sexual enjoyment for the first time.

I could make a good counter-argument on these concerns, but that's for another day. Because I also know some of you out there are of the opposite viewpoint: "I can't wait! Gimmie aaaaall the details with hot fudge and a cherry on top!" So, for all those not ready for dessert, come back to it another day when you are; or never ever, and that's okay too. Those who are ready for their homemade sundaes, take spoon in hand and read on!