sex technique

My lover Kristina asked me when last we were together, lounging in her bed, "So many men want to run a race with their dicks straight to the vagina. How was it that you went a different way?"

It made me think of what is said among some men: don't bother learning how to make it feel good for her because then she'll fall in love with you, or get attached, and then be a big pain in the ass.

That's uniquely inhumane, I must say.