sex positions

What's the Best Sex Position for Orgasms?

Hi,
I am 21 and I've just met a guy (20, but very mature for his age) and we both really like each other. We haven't gone as far as saying that we are in a relationship, cause it's to early for that, really. But we seem to trust each other very much. We've figured out why our first times together haven't been as good as we both hoped for. And though he did cum, he found it a little boring, as well as I did. We found out that we were just both being shy and not playing around enough. My problem is that I have never had an orgasm during intercourse.

A Question On Betty's Sex Position, "Right Angles"

Here is a question that I answered via email from a woman who attended my food and sex co-presentation. I'm planning on making an audio version for sale too. I listed this position on the PowerPoint slide we used for suggested positions, however, the presentation moved on before all the positions could be described. The "right angles" position was one of them. We'll call the woman asking the question Sienna. Her reply to my answer is below as well. The pic I used for this blog post is from Sex For One from a drawing by my mentor, Betty Dodson. She and her late webmaster, Grant Taylor, counted this position among their favorites.

Advanced Reverse Cowgirl Sex and Sixty-Nine, ver. 2

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Here's a sex position that for the longest time didn't work for me. Then Olivia and I cracked it one morning.

The curvaceous woman had just come while sixty-nineing, her round peach of an ass over my face and her erect clitoris, from shaft to glans, sucked inside my mouth. I did something I'd never tried before in that position that made her blow. I slid my right thumb up and into her slippery vagina, went straight to her PS-spot (perineal sponge, which I'm e-booking on for all the full info), and worked my magic on her southern g-spot while my tongue went crazy over her clit.

The Love Picture Exhibition

Walking to my studio on West 29th Street early one morning, I ran into a man who had worked as a commercial artist for my former husband. Sergio DiNolti had been fat and homely, but the man standing in front of me was trim and very muscular with a lean, appealing face. As I admired his miraculous change, he said he'd been doing Karate four times a week. As we walked towards my studio, I sensed some extraordinary sex was about to take place. Luckily my diaphragm was still in place from the sex I'd had with Grant the night before.

Ultralubricated and He Slips Out

Hey Dr. Betty,

I am a 23 year old woman who gets very very wet. I have always been this way and never thought anything about it until I was in my first relationship with another woman. She never even got as close to being as wet as me even when she was really turned on and told me she had only been with one other woman who got so wet and she was a squirter. Since then I have met this wonderful guy. He tells me that I feel loose and he slips around a lot.

Missionary Position Leaves Me Bruised

Dear Betty,

Last time I had sex, I realised something - or rather, I noticed it the day after. My inner thighs were bruised (most likely from staying too long in the missionary position), which was quite painful, as I'm a curvy girl, my thighs touch when I walk. It's not the first time I've been bruised this way - in fact, it happens almost every time I've had sex.

How NOT to Cramp Your Style While Spooning

Found this on Jamye Waxman's blog. Brilliant:

Hair Like a Long Black Curtain, Part Three Revised

Due to popular demand, (determined lust for you, Becca. Someday...) I'm adding back in a position-switch that happened during my sex with Kit-Ting and Wendy. The blog post was getting too long so I edited. Here's the director's cut, the new content in italics, the original below it:

I asked Wendy for my shirt from the chair. Slid myself out of Kit-Ting, grasped her little teardrop calves and pressed her thighs together, then guided her knees up to her breasts.

"Hold behind your knees, Kit-Ting."

I grasped my long sleeve shirt and put the collar at her hands and tied my sleeves around her thighs, nice and tight. Then handed her the ends of the sleeves. On my knees, I admired the inverted heart-shape of her ass and backs of her thighs with a sweetly closed tan vulva in the center. I pushed my hard glans into the red riding hood and plunged easily back inside-- all the way down.

How Can a Plus-Size Gal Get On Top?

I was just wondering if you have any suggestions for plus sized women who are interested in learning how to "ride" a man (woman on top).  I am often afraid that I will hurt my boyfriend who weighs almost as much as I do, but I still have him beat by 15-20lbs.  Also, I often find myself getting tired up there and give up.  Any suggestions?

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