sex education

Will be starting my third day of shooting on Betty's newest erotic sex ed videos and so far, I'm very pleased. In more ways than the obvious. Yes, I am the male model in these new productions. Same as I am for Betty's finished streaming videos. I was recently counciled by advice from a marketing professional that in pursuit of my aspirations as a sex life consultant, I need to choose one of two paths. Mainstream or niche market. Further, that it will be more difficult to go mainstream if I am featured in erotic productions where I'm having sex.

This is a testimonial written by a current client after our second session together. I love my job. The pic for this blog post is not one of Rachel :)

"Thanks, Eric, for another fun, inspiring, completely useful…and on and on….and on….(this is me going on and about you!) session."

"But seriously, for about a year now, I have been focused on putting the intimate and erotic spark back into my loooong term relationship with my husband. Since I’m not one for romantic gestures, I knew that more romance, the typical prescription, would not suit.

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "Want to do that. To feel that." To want to learn how to have better sex through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives

Olivia loves bondage and masculine domination combined with intercourse and oral sex. She revealed to me her subscription to kink.com's site, www.sexandsubmission.com. I got a membership and watched some hot examples.

I've been reading and investigating the cases of what sex therapy professionals, namely psychologists, are dealing with in their practice so I can reference some of that info in my teaching. One repeated issue is, termed by the conservative mindset, as the objectification of your primary partner with whom you share parenting or not. In this case, the person you've married and spent more than 2 years married to. It makes situations where people meet, have hot erotic-driven sex, marry, then that goes away either because of the responsibilities, fascinations, and energy/attention demands of the child or, with or without children, the law of diminishing returns sets in and the sex isn't as fiery as it started out. I believe objectification is just as necessary as adoration throughout our sex life.

This is taken from a chat between Olivia and me, whom I've blogged on many times in the past and will once again tomorrow, discussing our thoughts and theories on the subtlties surrounding why there's the struggle our culture and the world has with women with hourglass figures and curves, particularly big butt and little waist, big breasts as well. Some stuff here I haven't seen written anywhere else.

me: longkiss
 
Olivia: Babe!
 
me: :D
 
Olivia: Come over and make me come, dammit

 For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "Want to do that. To feel that." To want to learn how to have better sex through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Enjoyed some time with my lover Billie and thought it sound to bring back up once more, from a previous blog post on advanced condom techniques an important safe sex issue made more so by one thing: strong vaginal muscles.

Billie has them. She did some PC muscle exercises every week for years and now she can impressively cunt-grip my cock. Those muscles and her very hard and full erectile tissue "ring", comprised by the G-spot, the two vestibular bulbs, and the PS-spot. I dont know how, but her ring gets really huge and fat. Especially when she's about 20 seconds away from her orgasm. And yes, it makes the pleasure while pumping into her even more intense for my dick. My come control is always challenged with her and sometimes fails to resist what her pussy can dish out. If nothing else, creating that effect seems a plausible use for viagra for women, if desired. Billie loves penetration by itself (and also loves her clit with a favorite vibrator on it during intercourse) and we both think that's due to that fully engorged ring and her muscles.

I saw, like everyone else does, in my early observations of how sex works most often in our culture that a woman's menstrual cycle is a time of shunning women in one form or another, and definitely no sex. I saw the looks on women's faces, the sound in their voices. It was a mix on a spectrum of hurt from the treatment and coping by holding her menstrual time in as much contempt, if not more, than men around her did. Then there were other women who always said, "What's the big deal?" Like they were oblivious to the issue. Of course, we've heard lots of quips on PMS from men. The trauma most women go through as adolescents when their periods start. At every turn it's a negative. Something in me wanted to see if that could be reversed with different perspectives.

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "Want to do that. To feel that." To want to learn how to have better sex through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Olivia and I didn't take long to get our clothes off. In fact, she was already in bed when I arrived at her place.

"Clothes! Off! Now!" she exclaimed gleefully.

I laughed and stripped. She threw back the covers to invite me in and to show off her curvy hourglass-carved perfection of a body. We made out. Heavy and light mixed, right there naked together in bed. She did have her pink see-through panties on though.... My hands and attention on her D cups, her slender waist, and broad hips with a tight and full ass behind her. One thing led to another and before long she started scooting down toward the foot of the bed. A man knows what that means. Knows where she's going.

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "Want to do that. To feel that." To want to learn how to have better sex through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Olivia and I set the alarm clock for early the night before. Got to her place late, cleaned up, and snuggled down into bed together. Out went the lights. When that alarm clock rang, we woke up gradually, first me touching her cute small foot with mine, which she responded to. We curled around each other. Did all the getting up to use the bathroom stuff, then, get the towel (to cover the sheets) let's sex it!