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We Agreed to be Poly Then He Freaked Out

Tue, 11/13/2012 - 10:44
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I enjoy your website and am so pleased and appreciative of all the work you are doing to help women and men open up to healthy sexuality. Thank you.

My husband and I are very open with each other about sex, our desires, feelings and the whole bit. We always have been for the 6 years of our relationship and 5 yr marriage.

We Suggest: 
Early Christians Had Sex Orgies, Celebrated their Genitalia & Practiced Polyamory?
My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir - EBOOK EDITION
How Do I Deal With Polyamory, When I'm Monogamous?
How Can I Ever Come To Understand Polyamory?

Kinky new member, still pretty shy.

Tue, 01/12/2010 - 21:21
Submitted by Miss. Chief

Funny how life works.  You wouldn't believe it if I told you I was sex a phobic until I got sober (just under 3 years).  I'll be 33 this month, and my entire twenties I had sex (or no sex I should say!) with one man, my husband, who I met at 17. Part of the truth being, I'm not sexually attracted to my husband, so I've been given permission to date my couple.  This arrangement works well for my family; I'm happier, my husband is happier. Do I feel guilty?  sometimes, as he doesn't have a  sex life.  Communication is still a major issue for me, especially with my couple, it's a work in progress.   I'm glad I came upon this site, and look forward to lively conversation.