penis pump

Sex After Prostate Surgery

Tue, 01/13/2009 - 09:46
Submitted by Anonymous

I write this hoping that some couples will benefit from what happened in my relationship with a man who turned out to be my best friend, the love of my life and my absolute favorite sex partner. All this was after he underwent prostate surgery.  Not all men will experience prostate surgery, but all men and women alike, will experience changes in our sex drives, capabilities and tastes as we head into our 40's, 50's, 60's and beyond. We are constantly changing as years pass. We have different relationships, jobs, homes, ideas, political inclinations, and spiritual affiliations to name a few. So why do we expect our sex lives to stay the same?

Sex Different After Prostate Cancer. Should I Get A Penis Pump?

Betty Dodson's picture
Thu, 08/21/2008 - 11:04
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr. Betty Dodson,

We love your books etc. After my complete prostate cancer surgery, things are now a lot different with sex! We are open to ideas from you how to make things better. My wife is very understanding but it just does not work like it did before the surgery. I have tried various medicines but no luck. Think maybe a pump or ring? Would appreciate any suggestions
how to make it hard.