Threesomes & Moresomes: Artful Hedonism

Growing up in Wichita in the forties, I didn't even know gay people existed until I moved to New York City in 1950. I'd just turned twenty. A year later when I enrolled in the Art Student's League, a woman in my class had a crush on me. When she flirted it made me uncomfortable, so I mostly avoided her. Still I was curious, so one night my girlfriend Cindy took me to my first gay club. The Purple Stem had one floor for men and another for women. After dancing and drinking a lot with many different women, I ended up back at my place with a big breasted lesbian and we had very drunken sex. The memory is still terribly vague, but I do recall her boobs were like soft pillows. I had enough problems without being a lesbian so I put that experience in the "forget" file.

By 1966, my primary lover Grant and I begin talking about having a threesome. I felt more comfortable doing it with a girlfriend I knew and liked. Revealing my interest in three way sex to my friend, Ginger O'Keefe, came easily.

Eric's First Play Party...


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Not everyone gets this sort of invite.  And you have to come prepared like our Eric Amaranth does with a packed case of Liquid Silk, an Hitachi Magic Wand, and Betty's Barbell.  And let's not forget about giving breast massages with Almond Oil.  

Part Two of My First Play Party in a Year

I came back to my lover and her primary partner. She was collapsed over him, breasts pressed against his chest, her narrow rib cage moving up and down with big slow breaths. She told me my attention got her to the edge, then she was moved to climb on top of her man's hard-on and bucked her hips with her hand at her clit all the way to "one of the most profound orgasms of her life." I replied, "See? Teamwork." All three of us high-fived each other.

My First Play Party in Over a Year

There I was. My first play party in over a year. I've been exploring play parties as a community-driven way of educating people on how to talk about safer sex more powerfully and how to practice better safe sex. The opening circle, where we introduce ourselves and say a little about our sensual desires and boundaries, wrapped up and the party began. There are too many sights, memories, and moments to include them all. However, a few notables:

I watched a group of women and men take a vanilla-complexioned blond wearing only powder-blue hose and garters from fingers sliding slowly in her ass gradually up to a hot brunette's lubricated fist twisting slowly at the wrist and pumping gently in and out. It was her first time fisting a woman's ass, and a round amazing ass it was.

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