orgasm during sex

i was honest with my boyfriend about only being able to give myself an orgasm. it doesnt bother me that much. sex still feels amazing, but it's really frustrating for him. now he has been trying extra hard lately to find out what i need. the problem is, the way i get myself off has been the same since i was a kid, and is pretty much impossible for another human to do to me. i dont insert anything, in fact i dont even have to take my pants off. i just grind my clit against my hands and squeeze my legs together really tight. i think thats the problem is that i cant contract the muscles down there very well without squeezing my legs closed.

Dear Betty. I have once in my live had an orgasm while having sex. but after a lot of sexual and physical abuse I never had it again. Im married now and my husband has tried everything. When he uses his hand and rub my clitoris I do get a feeling but not that don't stop, go on forever, mind-blowing feeling. And my clitoris hurts aswell after trying for almost a half an hour to just get something! i've also gone for a papsmeer to make sure nothing physically is wrong. how can I get an orgasm again while having sex with my husband?

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. There is no such thing as having a bad orgasm- they all put a smile on my face. Maybe the vaginal orgasms that I managed to squeak out in my twenties would classify as G's. Some were quite accidental and non-repeatable. Others required a thirty minute erection owned by a handsome young man who promised he'd only have sex with me. Oh yes, I had to get on top and Ride ‘em Cowgirl, which wasn't easy in the fifties and early sixties. They called us "ball busters" back then.

Hi,

My husband and I need some sort of therapy. We're only 26 and have been married 2 months. I don't have any desire to have sex and it's having an affect on our relationship. Most of the problem is me and I need to figure out what I can do to make things better. I also have never had an orgasm during intercourse in my life. I have United Healthcare insurance. Is this something that's covered by insurance? Typically how much is a session and how many sessions does one usually have?