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Sex During Her Period: The Intimacy, Acceptance, & Her Appreciation

I saw, like everyone else does, in my early observations of how sex works most often in our culture that a woman's menstrual cycle is a time of shunning women in one form or another, and definitely no sex. I saw the looks on women's faces, the sound in their voices. It was a mix on a spectrum of hurt from the treatment and coping by holding her menstrual time in as much contempt, if not more, than men around her did. Then there were other women who always said, "What's the big deal?" Like they were oblivious to the issue. Of course, we've heard lots of quips on PMS from men. The trauma most women go through as adolescents when their periods start. At every turn it's a negative. Something in me wanted to see if that could be reversed with different perspectives.

Cassandra's Sexy Mysterious Eyes, Part One

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Cassandra was tired of drunken sex. More accurately, drunken guys that she ended up having sex with. Why did she, or they, always have to go there for sex to be passably pleasurable, she once told me. We flirted over chat. Sent dripping-sexy texts to each other, of what we wanted to do to each other. Cassandra has long, perfectly straight shining mahogany hair. Fair strawberries and cream skin, and big, jade-green eyes. Made bigger by how she often does her makeup. Very cute, small face too.

How Can I Learn to Deep Throat?

Betty answered this question, I posted it, and 1,000 of you read it within a few hours. It was a natural topic for our Friday podcast. 

Loss of Erection While Putting On A Condom

Here's a link to a forum question here on dodsonandross.com where a woman says she has a problem with her partner getting condoms on and losing his erection in the process. My advice is sound, hot, and sexually advanced if I do say so myself. The info centers around how stopping the hot action to mechanically put on a condom can make erections soften.

Even if you dont have this issue, the tips I give will improve your condom application moments and others as well....

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How Can I Learn to Deep Throat?

i am very sexually stimulated when i am sucking on my husbands penis... but very frustrated that i cant deep throat, swallow, go down without choking a real quick turn off.

Doggy Style or Rear Entry? & Safe Sex Blowjobs, Part One

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the first time in their lives. 

It wasn't the first time Lora and I'd been together. We'd played with just gloved hands and condomed blowjobs once before. She sent me a text a week later saying,

"Heya-- you got a compliment from the bf today. He says my bj skills have improved notably since you. Kudos. :)"

Olivia's Erotica On Sex With Eric Amaranth, Part Two

My incredible lover Olivia wrote this based on our second night together for my blog. I wanted to have a lover's perspective on the sex we shared and because it's hot. Olivia's a great erotica writer too! Check out part one here. If you would like to learn more about Young Living Essential Oils, as used below, contact me .

Boyfriend NOT into Eating Pussy

Hi Betty and Carlin,

First off I'd like to thank you for awesomeness. I've just discovered your site and found it educational and informative but most importantly not scary! I'm a 24-year-old female in a long term relationship with a 23-year-old male. Our sex life is pretty great except he is not keen on giving me oral sex.

29% of Men Not Doing Their Job?

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According to an article in the Jan 2009 UK edition of Cosmo,, a Durex survey has revealed that 29% of men will not give oral.  For starters I always wonder about how accurate surveys such as this are; it's hardly street corner "excuse me, can you spare a moment" stuff.  Also, I have only met the other 71%, not that any man who refused oral would get very far with me!!  BUT if this figure is true I find it quite depressing, what do others think?

Girlfriend Won't Let Me Go Down on Her

Hi Betty,

I'm new to your site, but thought I would ask how to procede with something happens between my girlfriend and I. I am 55 and my girl friend is 59 years old. I do use Cialis and Viagra. My girlfriend and I have been together and intimate for 2 years. We live together too, now. When ever we have sex it is always the last thing we do before going to sleep in bed; whether it is on the week end or during the week. She never allows spontaneous sex during the day or any other time. She has to have had a shower to get completely clean and put on her body cream. When she is ready, she smells great and we have great sex....except she won't let me go down on her.

Can My Clit Loose Sensitivity From My Vibrator?

Dear Betty,

I'm 44 years old and in recent years my sex drive as been extremely high. I've only had a handful of sexual partners in my lifetime, as I started rather late in life. But believe me, I've been making up for lost time. I began masturbating at a young age - perhaps 8 or 9, and have always masturbated (primarily with my fingers). But in the last 2 years I acquired some toys and now use a vibrator often. However, when having sex, I don't usually cum easily, if at all. Perhaps because I'm with much younger guys that don't realize you need to warm a girl up first? Or perhaps because how my pussy is shaped (I have large labia majora)? Either way, I'm not certain.

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