making love

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the first time in their lives. 

This blog entry is based on email feedback I received from Samantha on the first of the nights and days we shared together. Enjoy. Here's part one for those just joining us.

Dear Eric,

Since you are considered an expert on these matters, i had wanted to ask you whether or not, based on your own opinion, you thought love (or being in a 'serious relationship') enhances sex...whether or not you think it brings a heightened level to the experience, etc.

Because in my experience, it doesn't, and this runs counter to what society seems to tell us. But hey, this is something i can ask you about another time perhaps, maybe over a drink one of these days.