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Great Sex But He's Married :(

Published 3 weeks ago by Betty Dodson
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I'm a 65 year old woman with "earthquake" orgasms but I'm very unhappy.  I met this man more than 1½ years ago. It was wonderful, just wonderful and I'm still in love with him BUT he's married and has been married for years and years. At first, it was OK for me because he told me his wife has depression, she can't stand sex with him, and it's ok if he has sex with somebody else.

I AM THE SOMEBODY ELSE!

Women Cheat More Than Men

Posted September 4th by Carlin
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This is so obvious but it's good to have the research.  Women cheat but they have more discretion and they don't need to assuage their guilt with a confession.  Who knew that Farrah Fawcett carried on an affair for 11 years?

Recent studies show that women are cheating as frequently as men - but we are a lot more likely to lie about it, and a lot less likely to get caught.  Simply put, it seems that women are better at having affairs than men.

The news that Farrah Fawcett had a secret affair for 11 years without telling a soul is a classic example of the way a woman cheats: discreetly, in secret, and while carrying on with the rest of her life as normal.

It has been met with hot denials by Ryan O'Neal, but - and I'm sorry to break it to you this way, Ryan - you'd be the last to know.

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Can a Man "Feel" that You've Cheated?

Published July 21st by Betty Dodson
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My lover says that her husband can tell if she has had sex with a different man because she does not feel the same when having intercourse. That she is rather loose according to husband. My lover states that I'm much larger so would this have made a difference?

Accused of Cheating Due to Labia Looseness

Published June 10th by Betty Dodson
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My husband just accused me of being unfaithful. He said that 2 weeks ago the day after my period he felt me and my Labia were loose and fluttery like i had just finished sex. We have been married 19 years, i have never cheated but i cannot convince him of this. What changes do labia go through on a monthly cycle.

Sluts....Threesomes....and Vibrator Addiction

Posted November 21st, 2008 by Carlin
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Dodson and Ross tackle the slut stigma and answer all your questions on threesomes, cheating, vibrator addiction, porn, and eating cum. 

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Is It Selfish to Want Partner Sex?

Published August 1st, 2008 by Betty Dodson
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Betty:

I have read and enjoyed your website for years and purchased many products over time. I appreciate your candor and straight forward advice, with which I agree most of the time. As a 57 year old male in a 35 year monogamous marriage, I think you missed something in your advice posted on line referenced above. WHAT ABOUT THE HUSBAND? I readily agree that from my perspective it is a selfish question, and one you have answered several times in the past. I think women should be advised of the pain from physical and emotional withdrawal her husband is going through, and given some advice on how she can ease that pain if she wants him to stick around to assist with her illnesses.

Wife Having Hip Surgery. Should I Take a Lover?

Published February 1st, 2008 by Betty Dodson
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Betty-

I am 67 years old and have a healthy sex drive. I stay trim by working out 3 days a week at the health club. I am active in outdoor activities. My wife is 4 years younger than me and seems to have almost no sex drive. This has been going on for about the last four years. I think I can relate this change to her surgery for hip replacement. The Dr. cautioned her about urinary tract infections after surgery.

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