humping

Has Humping Furniture Damaged My Clitoris?

Tue, 03/14/2017 - 08:10
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr Betty!

I am 18 years old and worried about the damage I may have done to my vagina. I discovered I could pleasure myself at 3 years old, by rubbing my clitoris against a sofa arm, and now regularly masterbate using the corner of a wooden desk. I am aware that this is really unhealthy as it is such a harsh movement, and I am worried that I have desensitised my clitoris or damaged it. Furthermore, as I tend to rub on one side, one of my labia majora has become much larger and more stretched than the other, giving my vulva a lopsided look (although I know vulva's come in all shapes and sizes I feel like mine is not normal as my masterbation has unnaturally stretched it).

How Can I Learn to Masturbate with My Hands?

Fri, 01/25/2013 - 15:12
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr. Betty,

I am a nineteen year old woman who has been masturbating for as long as I can remember. I have tried countless times to use my hands (and followed your detailed instructions for First Orgasm three times) and it does not do anything for me. The way I have always masturbated is using a blanket or a pillow and sort of humping it. Sometimes I feel satisfied, sometimes I don't, but it always feels good.