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Sat, 02/12/2011 - 17:20
Submitted by Betty Dodson

FIRST TIME ORGASM: Most young girls will begin by using their hands and massage oil. A young woman who has a history of little or no masturbation and has reached her mid to late-20s and is looking for her first orgasm, a battery driven vibrator can be a good choice. There are many of these vibrators available.

However, it you are in your thirties or older, the Magic Wand is also a good choice. If you are using a Wand, I recommend putting some kind of fabric between you and the vibrator to soften the vibes. Lately I've been putting a sock on mine. I use a thin or a thick one, depending upon my mood.

We Suggest: 
Betty's Vaginal Barbell
The Orgasm Doctor: Cynthia
Learn to Orgasm in Four Acts (eBook)
Betty's System Works

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Thu, 02/10/2011 - 09:36
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi betty!

I'm an 18 year old girl who lost her virginity about 3 months ago. Since I was a young child I've always been fascinated by sex and knew I would be a very sexual person when I was older. After finding out that actually sex isnt like it is in the movies where the woman has a huge full body orgasm after only a few seconds of penetration I'm looking for the answer to real great sex. This lead me to stumble upon your videos on youtube about 3 days ago and you've already helped me so much! During masturbation (which I did a lot of before I even heard about you and what you teach) :)

Intercourse & Oral Sex, Like Masturbation, Don't Do a Whole Lot for Me

Tue, 02/01/2011 - 17:07
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

First, I would like to thank you. I am an eighteen year old girl who has just this year begun University. Until now I have always been incredibly ashamed of my genitals. I have very large inner lips which I always thought were stretched and abnormal. After searching on the internet, I became convinced I had 'hypertrophy of the labia minora' and saw countless cases where women have gone through labia minora reduction to have a 'normal' looking vulva.

After watching 'Viva la Vulva' I finally realized just how many unique looks there are and how beautiful they all are. In fact, upon examining my own genitals with a free standing mirror, I discovered that when I open my inner lips in a specific position, they form an adorable heart.