Morning Sex and Simultaneous Orgasm

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "Want to do that. To feel that." To want to learn how to have better sex through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Olivia and I set the alarm clock for early the night before. Got to her place late, cleaned up, and snuggled down into bed together. Out went the lights. When that alarm clock rang, we woke up gradually, first me touching her cute small foot with mine, which she responded to. We curled around each other. Did all the getting up to use the bathroom stuff, then, get the towel (to cover the sheets) let's sex it!

An Amrita, Female Ejaculation Question

 Hi Eric,

I have an odd question. I had a pretty nice experience last night. Amrita flooding! I wondered if you knew if female ejaculate can also take on the scent of asparagus a bit like urine does (after a woman eats it of course)?

I am not sure if I had a little accident when I was cumming or not.

=)

Phoebe

How Can I Find My Orgasm Spot?

I am 23 years old and have been married for 6 years and I am still kind of young and learning new feeling in that area everytime. I have never had an orgasm and would love to find out how to have one. I have tryed using a vibrator and dildo and intercourse and i just cant seem to find that spot. can you please help.

No Feeling Inside my Vagina

I have never had any feeling inside my vagina. I never have since I started having sex. I can feel that something is there but no pleasure at all, not even a little. And I know for a fact that it is NOT the guy. I have had a few different sex partners over the years of different shapes, sizes, and performances. I can have a mind blowing orgasm by playing with my clit but never from inside.

Intercourse Feels Great But No Orgasm

Hi Betty,Hi Betty,

i'm 26 years old, female. I have a bf and he's very loving and caring partner trying to do everything to satisfy me. But i am not able to reach orgasm during intercourse, even though it feels very great. I have reached a few in the past, last one maybe a year ago. about half a year ago i started to masturbate with a vibrator by stimulating my clitoris and i am perfectly able to have orgasms in this way. but nothing during an intercourse.

No Feeling Inside My Vagina

Dear Betty,

I am 23 and enjoying experimenting with my great new (& first) boyfriend. I do reach orgasm by myself (clit) and as well when he is stimulating it (finger/dick), but I don't feel anything "good" inside my vagina while having sex.

Think I Have a Tooth in my Vagina

I'm 37, mother of a teen, I've been with my partner for 2 years and I'm hurting him. He tells me there's a dry spot, a "tooth", a hard part inside my vaginal canal on the side somewhere that rubs him raw sometimes.

And it is only sometimes. It usually happens when he's been stimulating my G-spot vigorously, before sex. When he enters me there's then a spot that isn't as smooth or lubricated as the rest and his penis ends up sore after thrusting against it. It can take days or even weeks for the sore spot to clear up.

What's An Orgasm & How Do I Have One?

Dodson and Ross answer this age old question. And if you haven't yet read The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm.  

Orgasm Expectations

We were a bit tired because we were partying all night but I got Betty to 'fess up about the sex fantasies she uses in her private sessions. From the f*ck bar to the tour bus, it educates, titillates, and entertains.

The Sex Born of Sexting, Part Four

Hello all. I often utilize my blog to write, with each lover's permission, on the sex I'm having in real-life. I do so of course for the sultry entertainment value and also to show the kind of sex I am having and doing. Ever wondered if a sex educator or therapist could live up to what they preach? Well, I have. My intention is for it to teach and illuminate as much as titilate. Imagine yourself feeling and co-creating with your partner the things in this blog. If you find yourself needing to learn how to make these things happen for real, I welcome you to schedule a talk-teaching or sex coaching session with me. Enjoy to the fullest. -E.A

I strode into my second playdate with Kristina. We kissed at her door once again, my hands at her narrow waist, my palms flat with fingers spread, just feeling her toned body under her thin houseshirt mingled with the pleasure our lips shared. We finished our embrace and said that she’d read the blog posts on our sex and having been a life-long erotica lover, ever since she was young, she loved having the experience of reading a published erotica piece with her as the star… based on actual sex she’d had with the writer.

Masturbation problems

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Hi! I have a question about (female) masturbation. I've been masturbating for about 2 years now, and have had no problems having orgasms through clitoral stimulation and occasionally oral sex. The only problem is that I tend to be a little rough with myself, and can only climax if my muscles are extremely tensed up. Although this gives my glutes and leg muscles a nice workout, I'm afraid I'm mashing my little nub too hard.

Is there a way to reach orgasm without all this tension? Should I just be more patient with myself? I generally climax within 5 minutes or so.

The Southern G-Spot and Chakras in Action

Wendy and I carried the sofa-futon over and onto the floor, then spread a soft blanket over it. She slipped off her easy-wear clothing and plopped down first. All I was wearing was a pair of 32 inch-waist black jeans. She watched me unbutton and unzip. I got rid of them, no underwear beneath, and joined her with a controlled fall.

Wendy has perfect teardrop B-cup breasts with flawless round undersides. Quarter-sized tan nipples and sandy-white skin. An elven body, elegant hips, and wavy black shoulder-length locks. I look down and see an image from the seventies. A full dark triangle between her thighs that wrapped down and hid her vulva in its center like a soft nest. We talked about her abandoning of shaving, saying how she loved having a thick bush. I moved my chest against her side, then ran my fingers through her mound. Wendy opened her thighs a bit and lifted her knees, feet flat on the futon, affording me the pleasure of using the back of my hand and forearm to slow-stroke over her fluffy-soft vulva. Wendy's growth there tickled my skin. She sighed and let her head fall to one side.

The G-spot Revisited

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. There is no such thing as having a bad orgasm- they all put a smile on my face. Maybe the vaginal orgasms that I managed to squeak out in my twenties would classify as G's. Some were quite accidental and non-repeatable. Others required a thirty minute erection owned by a handsome young man who promised he'd only have sex with me. Oh yes, I had to get on top and Ride ‘em Cowgirl, which wasn't easy in the fifties and early sixties. They called us "ball busters" back then.

How Can I Orgasm During Sex? Afraid I'll Fart or Pee.

Hello, I am super embarrassed to even ask this, but ok I am 20 years old and I lost my virginity when I was 16, and I have had 7 partners and still none of them have been able to give me an orgasm, I have had plenty orgasms through the clitoris through masturbation, but never have I been able to reach one during intercourse through my g spot. I think I am just scared and do not let it happen, but I am sooo sexually frustrated.

Shere Hite in On The Issues Magazine

WOW! What a delight to see Shere Hite in On The Issues Magazine. I whooped and hollored when I read what she said about the g-spot. I've been calling it the new name for vaginal orgasms since the concept came out with Whipple et al. My second book, "Orgasms for Two" had a chapter I called "G-spot or My Spot." Dear goddess, the girls who were g-spot squirters were furious with me along with sex store owners and salespeople who now have a load of G-spot toys, books and DVD's to sell.

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