female ejaculate

Hi Betty,

When I am using my hitachi (which I Love) I sometimes pee, i can't help it, it just comes out. Is this normal? Should I see a doctor or tell my gynecologist? Also I don't know if I orgasm because I can't feel my internal muscles flexing, but it feels great! I love sex with my husband, it feels amazing but I never feel those muscles pulsing or flexing, either during sex or when I use my hitachi. Thanks for any advise you can give.

Thanks,

Dear R,