ejaculation

Betty,

please settle an argument between my boyfriend and me. We watch and enjoy porn before we have sex a lot. We are both amazed at how much a how far the guys shoot off when they come. My boyfriend says that it is fake and usually not really them coming, I say that it is real and that they are just real studs and that most of them are really well hung which enables them to shoot more and farther. By the way, my boyfriend has never come like that, but he can have multiple comes in one love making sessions, so I'm not complaining.

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I've recently got into a typical 'teenage' relationship. 'Going out' with each other, holding hands, kissing when we think no one is looking, and generally having a great time with each other. Its not love, but its fun, and its just enjoyable. The other day, taking it a step further, I gave him head. I'm not claiming to be amazing at head, but I love giving it, and I've always had positive feedback when I do... Except, in this case, it took almost an hour to get him off, which has never happened to me before, so I was a little....Shocked.

Dear Betty,

I have been married for three years now and my husband and I are anxious to have children. We have wonderful sex, but we have a problem. In the 3 years that we have been together, my husband has only ejactulated twice. He has no problem ejactulating while masterbating, but he does not cum when we are having sex.

Dr. Betty,

My husband and I are both in our late 20s. We've been together since high school and married for 4 years. Neither of us want children, and he has decided that he's ready to get a vasectomy, which I support him fully in. We've both read a lot about the procedure, so we know what to expect.... except in one little area. This may be a silly question, but, well... I've never had a man come inside me. We've always used condoms or the withdrawal method. We're both excited at the prospect of him being able to do this once the doctor gives us the go-ahead, but I'm wondering what to expect. Is it messy?

My husband and I are a professional 40-ish couple with two small children. the problem we have is finding intimate time. This may not seem like such a big deal, but my husband produces over half a cup of seaman with each ejaculation. So the problem is we find it hard to have a quickie here and there because of the mess his "Shooter" causes. It's not just the quantity, but the distance he shoots as well. It's difficult for him to wear a condom because it's like having a very full water balloon on the end of his pens when he finishes. If he withdrawls, I'm coated like a glazed donut.

Dear Betty,

Sometimes when I go to the bathroom I feel like I have an orgasm like pressure and then I have what looks to be cum come out. Is that really cum? Is this normal? Is it a sign that I should "clean the pipes"?

Jessica pulled the covers up over her bare shoulders. Laying on her side with me on my back, I remember feeling her smooth inner thigh across my stomach, pulling me into her body-grasp. With just a little thrust, she made sure I knew her vulva was wet as it kissed the space between my hip and my ass. I looked over to her peaceful face, eyes closed with a tiny smile.
"I brought the Butterfly, finally," I said. I felt her head stir on the pillow we were sharing.

"Good. I was gonna smack you if you'd forgotten it again." She smooched my shoulder and traced her fingers through the hair in the center of my chest.