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I recently started dating a really great guy. I am a divorced single mom and he is the most amazing man I've ever been involved with. We are both super-sexual and attracted to each other but the problem is this: he has a very small penis (which is fine with me, I love him and am still capable of getting off with it/him) and he seems to be pretty self-conscious about it (making self-deprecating jokes, etc.) Anyway, he takes FOREVER to come, with anal/oral/and vaginal intercourse and sometimes he doesn't come at all.

Dear Betty,

having read your book Orgasms for Two I was impressed by your knowledge and your way of writing . Last night my girlfriend ( over 50 ) told me ( over 60 ) that she would prefer my ejaculation inside her whereas my preference is to ejaculate on her, preferably on her breast by means of masturbation.

is it safe to swallow semen my hubby wants me to but i need to know if its safe to do so i have tasted it before and dont mind the taste but i need to know how the swallow will be.