Is It My Natural Anxiety or Repressed Feelings Keeping Me From Enjoying Sex?

Mon, 11/11/2013 - 17:04
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I'm an 18 yr old girl and I have anxiety and adhd which do go hand in hand. It's genetic and comes from my mom who is very supportive and i can talk to her about almost anything. In my early puberty i became very religious and active in my church. For the past year i've changed my perspective alot and i don't agree with alot of christianity or at least the way they conduct it. I'm not athiest and still trying to figure things out for myself so i'm just calling myself agnostic right now.

Worrying About Performance Kills Orgasm

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Wed, 09/17/2008 - 09:28
Submitted by Betty Dodson


I have had sex before but I am always questioning the right and wrong things to do..I am always wondering should we continue kissing, should i give him we have sex now, should I nibble his ears? I am clueless...Is there anything that kind of guides how it should flow or am I thinking about it too much. I think so much that when I do have sex I never have an orgasm cause I am worried if it feels good for him. I had a 9lb baby and fear  I maybe too loose. Help!

Dear Nan,