What's the Best Sex Position for Orgasms?

Hi,
I am 21 and I've just met a guy (20, but very mature for his age) and we both really like each other. We haven't gone as far as saying that we are in a relationship, cause it's to early for that, really. But we seem to trust each other very much. We've figured out why our first times together haven't been as good as we both hoped for. And though he did cum, he found it a little boring, as well as I did. We found out that we were just both being shy and not playing around enough. My problem is that I have never had an orgasm during intercourse. I think that was because I used to have only have one night stands so far and being drunk and not really knowing the man didn't help me to climax. But I know that he really wants me to orgasm and feel the same pleasure he does.

So I was wondering if there is a position that makes women come better or faster. I have noticed that I can cum during clitoral stimulation but also during vaginal, as I have just turned my vibrator off lately and put only very little pressure on my clit. So I think it should be possible. We both know we're gonna do things differently next time and not living around each others corner makes it easier as we get very exited when we then see each other. Anyway, I hope you can help me with this. And sorry for the essay but I thought it would be good if you knew some important details.

Thanks!

Dear TM,

First off, I don't recommend coming faster. Enjoying sex with a partner isn't like a foot race to see who crosses the line first. Take you time, make it last. Like savoring a delicious meal. All orgasms are the result of some form of clitoral stimulation whether direct or indirect. Coming from intercourse alone is very iffy and requires a lot of logistics to be in place which makes it difficult to repeat. Manual and oral sex is far more reliable for female orgasms. What works best for most women is to add some clit stim with your finger during fucking. Otherwise partnersex can turn into a crap shoot where the luck of the draw leads to orgasm. Don't let his desire for you to come be all that important. That's his ego talking. He wants to prove he's a badass by "making" you come. We are all responsible for our own orgasms. You don't have to come everytime you get together. Sharing masturbation is a great way to learn about each others preference for genital stimulation. Be playful, experiment and talk about what felt good and what you liked after you've had sex together.. Enjoy.

Dr. Betty