Urinating During Clitoral Orgasm

I have been using an Hitachi Magic Wand for a number of months now with no problem reaching an orgasm within the first few minutes without anything out of the ordinary happening. However, the past two times, during orgasm (clitoral) for what I thought was ejaculation turned out to be urine. I thought the first time was ejaculation as there was no odor but once dried, it was yellow so I had my doubts. Today, I knew it was urine from the smell. I was so disappointed as I had surgery a year ago to stop my incontenance problem and now I think it has come back. I can't remember what the surgery was exactly but part of it involved insertion of a sling I think. Is the wand too powerful for me? Why am I urinating all of a sudden? Has this happened to other women? Please help. What do I do now?

Dear PK,

Without knowing your age or whether or not you are coming up on menopause, I'm guessing here. When using the Wand, I always recommend softening the vibes with something between you and the Wand. Also the idea is not to bear down and have a quick come within a few minutes. Observe how you are using your pelvic floor muscle during clit stim and avoid bearing down as in giving birth. Read my information under Betty's Vaginal Barbell and begin doing your Kegel exercises to keep your pelvic muscles toned. Several women have reported "female ejaculation" while using a Magic Wand. I am not fan of squirting and I believe it's often urine from a weak pelvic floor muscle. So get my Barbell and start working out. Squeeze and release. Squeeze and release.

Dr. Betty