Think I Have a Tooth in my Vagina

I'm 37, mother of a teen, I've been with my partner for 2 years and I'm hurting him. He tells me there's a dry spot, a "tooth", a hard part inside my vaginal canal on the side somewhere that rubs him raw sometimes.

And it is only sometimes. It usually happens when he's been stimulating my G-spot vigorously, before sex. When he enters me there's then a spot that isn't as smooth or lubricated as the rest and his penis ends up sore after thrusting against it. It can take days or even weeks for the sore spot to clear up.

But this patch is not there all the time. I can't feel it - he can with his fingers from his vantage point, but I can't reach it from mine.

Any idea what this is, and how we can solve this problem? I don't want to hurt him, but being scared I will is making me more and more hesitant to have sex with him.

Dear MB,

Time to watch our video cast "The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm" or read my book "Orgasms for Two." It's that damn spot inside your vagina that's causing your problem. Tell the Dear Man to use some lube and massage your clitoris instead of stimulating the stupid G-spot vigorously, before sex. Does it feel good to you? Or is it just for his titillation? Then have him add additional lube to his dick and instruct him do slow penetration while you massage your clitoris. Then enjoy yourselves with no price to pay afterward.

Dr. Betty