i've been an advent reader and explorer of your website for the past 3 years. i've been with the love of my life for the past 7yrs. but for the past 2 or so years i have been going online looking for pics of naked woman and naked men. at night while my gf was sleeping i would go online and get really excited seeing these pictures. also i would join online sex groups to fulfill my hunger for sex and pics. in the midst of all this, i have become attracted to seeing these pics of naked men and enjoying them to endulge in sexual activity. although i have thoughts about having sexual relations with other guys. betty i am honestly scared to tell my gf the feelings i have about these guys. honestly i never thought about being with another guy until a couple years ago. she was raised in a strict catholic household. i really feel as if i have to hide a part of myself from her.
betty can you please help me.
My Dear man you are between a cock and a clit. In the enlightened sex world what you are experiencing is called bisexuality and is seen by us as healthy. In you girlfriends Catholic world, it's called a perversion and you're shit out of luck. So tell her and she'll dump you, or keep your own council and continue to love and live with her. While the ideal would be "honesty is the best policy" you already know it won't work with her. The good news is that if she finds out and does break up with you, there's a whole world of happy gay men out there who are more than available for all that you might want to do sexually. I'd say count your blessings kiddo. You've just doubled your chances of a happy sex life with both men and women. Play safe is my