No Feeling Inside my Vagina

I have never had any feeling inside my vagina. I never have since I started having sex. I can feel that something is there but no pleasure at all, not even a little. And I know for a fact that it is NOT the guy. I have had a few different sex partners over the years of different shapes, sizes, and performances. I can have a mind blowing orgasm by playing with my clit but never from inside. I cant even feel anything when I masterbate. And I also do not have a g-spot. I know some women just cant find it or havent found it yet, but I do not have one. I was sexually abuse for approximately 6 years when I was a young child, do you think that might have something to do with it? I am clueless and just want to get pleasure from having sex. Please help me with any advice you can give. Also this might be important... I was born with no uterus, no cervix, or tubes. All I have are ovaries. Never had a period (of course), maybe this has something to do with it?

Dear TS,

If you read around on our website, all the information is there. Your clitoris is your primary organ for pleasure. Forget about g-spots and vaginal sensations. Stay with your clit and stimulate it during intercourse.

Very few women with all the plumbing have orgasms from vaginal stimulation alone. Read the essay "The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm" by Anne Koedt. Also my book "Orgasms for Two." Yes, there are a handful of women who come from fucking but the majority of us need some kind of direct clitoral stimulation. As for your past abuse, that doesn't seem to be an issue for you becasue you are orgasmic with clitoral stimulation. However, you have been abused by dis-information about female sexuality. Again, like most of us. Otherwise you are doing just great so enjoy your clitoral orgasms. Check out the info under my Vaginal Barbell and start doing pelvic floor muscle exercises. Vaginal penetration is a secondary form of stimulation if you are tuned into your PC muscle. Again, all of this information is readily available on the website.

Dr. Betty