My Clitoris Is Too Small

Betty Dodson's picture
Mon, 06/29/2009 - 12:14
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I have been looking at your gallery and at other sites, and then have looked at my own vulva, and have found out that I have a very small clitoris. I never gave this any thought before, but now I am pretty much obsessed about it. I barely have a hood, my labia beginning almost right at the point my outer labia meet. You can barely feel my clit with a finger, less alone see it. It seems to be situated rather deeply too. When stimulated though, I can feel the shaft. My partner recently commented on the size of my clit as well, saying how small it was. Since then I have a hard time cumming, taking me a long time, and sometimes I cant even cum at all.

This worries me since before I could make myself cum very fast if I wanted, and now, even if all I want is release, I cant. I have even bought the hitachi magic wand after reading your site, and not even that has helped me achieve orgasm. The only way I can achieve orgasm now is through penetration. I miss my clit orgasms so much though! How can I get them back and enjoy myself once more without thinking that I am less of a woman because I have a small clitoris?

Thank you,


Dear L,

I suggest you take a photograph of your vulva, exposing your clitoris and if you don't want to post it on the site send it to me directly. Let me be the judge as to the size of your clitoris. In all my many years of experience, even the smallest still has 8,000 nerve endings.

Dr. Betty


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