Looking for treatment for my lack of orgasms

Hi,

My husband and I need some sort of therapy. We're only 26 and have been married 2 months. I don't have any desire to have sex and it's having an affect on our relationship. Most of the problem is me and I need to figure out what I can do to make things better. I also have never had an orgasm during intercourse in my life. I have United Healthcare insurance. Is this something that's covered by insurance? Typically how much is a session and how many sessions does one usually have?

Thanks,

Daria

Dear Daria,

This is one of my most frequently asked questions. Very few women can have an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone but you'll never know that without a comprehensive sex education. Between the abstinence only message (saving yourself for marriage when every thing magically turns out just fine on your wedding night) to watching porn standing in for sex ed, (where female orgasms are either faked or greatly exaggerated) your generation is floundering in the bedroom. You are not alone. Before booking an appointment with me, I think you would benefit from reading my books or watching one of the DVD's. If you are having orgasms when you masturbate, simply use the same kind of clitoral stimulation that works when you are alone. Then do the same kind of clit stim while you are having intercourse with your husband.

If you are not having orgasms when you masturbate then my book "Sex for One" would be a good investment to begin your sex education. Orgasms begin with ourselves. All the information about how I teach, which I call Sex Coaching, is on my website. Insurance does not cover my work. Many women have learned all they need to know by using my books, DVD's and sex toys. Spend more time browsing my website, and then if you are still confused, get back to me.

Betty