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Looking to Get Boyfriend to Have Same Room Sex

Published March 29th by Betty Dodson
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Hi Betty/Carlin,

My boyfriend and I are both nudists in our 20's, we go around the house naked all the time, go to nudist swims, nudist resorts, nude beaches and socialize in the nude at friends homes etc. Several of our nudists friends like to play with each other, fuck or masturbate in front of us when we are having a naked visit. I think this is great! I enjoy watching them do this in the open and want to do the same in front of them. I usually end up only masturbating. He'll play with my cunt a bit with his hand and fondle my tits however doesn't seem to get into it. Is there anything I can do or say to get him to open up? Normally he is all over me. Is fucking/masturbating in front of others unusual and I'm out of whack?

Thanks,

L

Hi L,

Three cheers for nudists. One of my favorite aspects of seventies group sex (followed by years of running nude workshops) was being with people while we socialized without our clothes on. We all seemed to be more natural, more relaxed with nothing to hide. Fucking and masturbating in front of others is highly unusual in our current society and usually takes place with a group of consenting adults who are at a sex party or they have signed up for a workshop dealing with sexuality. However, I don't think you're out of whack other than not communicating with your lover that you would like him to be more sexually involved with you at your next party.

Dr. Betty

 

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Submitted by Carlin on Mon, 03/30/2009 - 17:36.

Hi Dr. Betty, Thanks so much for your reply and words of encouragement. Wow, you really have an exciting profession. I showed your email to my boyfriend and we talked about it. His big concern was that it would lead to having some other guy touch or fuck me. I told him that same room sex means just him and I (Some of our nudists friends play with other couples a bit). We set the rules and make them clear to everyone. We talked about fucking during our next visit and he now can't wait. Will let you know how it goes. You are right communication is everything! Loads of thanks, PS. I think he really is excited about it. He fucked me pretty hard after our talk, so he must be thinking about it ;-)  

enjoy sex with your nudist friends

Submitted by Anonymous User (not verified) on Tue, 06/30/2009 - 12:36.

Glad to read that the nudist traditiion of having sex when socializing with friends is still going on. We did it already in the sixties in nudist camps, in facilities separated from the open general public and took turns spending time outside and inside. When you are young and horny, nothing can be more fulfilling and you do it more often when you see others masturbating or fucking around you. You two have lots of fun.
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