I Want Multiple Orgasms

Sex with my boyfriend is amazing. Matter of fact, its so amazing that I want to have multiple orgasms, but after I have that first one things start to get uncomfortable. I need a long break in between orgasms (like 20 minutes). Only once have I been able to orgasm twice during sex and it was just recently. Im starting to think that I am weird. Is there anything that I can do to have multiples? And if so, what?

Dear K,

Our sexual patterns can and will change over time. The idea of multiple orgasms is confusing. It's not like breaking a string of pearls with orgasms falling one after another. For most of us, there is some kind of a build-up in-between each one. My preference would be calling them serial orgasms. That long 20 minute break can be shortened. Just back off from clitty right after an orgasm for a moment or two, but keep breathing and doing your pelvic rocking while you continue clit stim. Voila! Another build-up and another orgasm. Meanwhile count your blessings for an amazing sexlife.

Dr. Betty