Husband Can't Ejaculate During Partner Sex

Dear Betty,

I have been married for three years now and my husband and I are anxious to have children. We have wonderful sex, but we have a problem. In the 3 years that we have been together, my husband has only ejactulated twice. He has no problem ejactulating while masterbating, but he does not cum when we are having sex. After our sessions he usually complains of a head ache and most of the times masterbates after ward to get off. Can too much masterbating be the cause of him not cumming when we are having sex? Is there any advice as to what we can to do make him cum? Please help becasue I sometimes feel like I am not good enough for him and that we will never be able to have kids.

Looking For hope!!!

Dear H,

Your husband may have reservations about having children. And we can have compassion for that. You can take the pressure off him having to ejaculate inside your vagina right away by having his semen caught and saved to get impregnated at any time. How many stories have we heard about couples trying to get pregnant and adopting a baby only to get pregnant shortly afterward? Masturbating with porn isn't the problem but the pressure to have a baby is creating performance anxiety. I suggest you take the pressure off getting pregnant and enjoy each other.

Dr. Betty