How Should I Prep for Anal Sex?

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Thu, 01/08/2009 - 15:48
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Thank you so much for you wonderful site and thoughts - Happy 2009 to you all! I have a little question... I'm wanting to explore more anal pleasures this sex year and I'm wondering: Is there some sort of prep that needs to be done before anal sex? I'm specifically thinking about douching etc...How do you deal with the possibility of fecal matter?! Is there a way to prevent this?

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Thank you
Love and Light

Hi BE,

I have an entire chapter in my book "Orgasms for Two" that goes into detail about anal sex. It's one of my favorite kinds of sex but it does require some preparation and learning to avoid UTI's (urinary tract irritations) and fecal matter. My apprentice Eric has two erotic anal stories recently posted. Be sure to read them. He also does verbal consultations and sex coaching with expertise in anal eroticism. Contact him at if interested.

Dr. Betty

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Wed, 01/14/2009 - 05:21

I love anal sex..

If I had to impart tips, they would be.. wash or shower first (you might get lucky and get eaten out. and thats REALLY nice).

high fiber diet!

Use the toilet first..

and condoms.. then if you want to switch to vaginal, its as simple as removing it, and using a fresh one.

Lastly.. nice and slow, fingers first, lost of lube.

Orgasms through anal sex rock my world, and if you go doggy style and tilt your butt upwards, and try to press your upper half down towards the bed, not only do you get a neat little yoga workout, but he might also hit your gspot while you play with your clit. I'm not too sure about this gspot buisness, but i do know that this feels amazing, and it only requires about three inches of penetration, good for him as it stimulates the head of his cock, and BRILLIANT for me.


The only downside is become a useless shaking mess after about ten minutes.. but I've never had any complaints!