How Can I Change My Masturbation Position?

Hey!! I know it's always the same,..and i think i already know the answer for my specific problem. But maybe you know a better one. I get no orgasm, even if my friend licks the pussy..it feels good and then it feels like im close. but doesnt work. the problem is, when i masturbate, its only possible to get an orgasm in a very strange position. I close my legs and brace them and then i stimulate the clit. But how can i free myself from this ONE position... it would be sooo awsome if you could only say one sentence to my problem. thanks a lot...

Dear L,

It's going to take more than one sentence. This is a consistent question I get. It's not so strange after all. You simply need to upgrade your masturbation skills. Yes, skills. Go to First Time Orgasm and read my basic steps. Practice at least 15 minutes using your new position and then finish off with "old faithful" so you don't end up frustrated. Like any new skill, it will take time and practice but it will happen. Unfortunately oral sex does not give all women sufficient stimulation. On top of that we often worry we are taking too long which makes it impossible to come. Be sure to use massage oil for all genital contact. For more information get my book "Sex for One."

Dr. Betty