Hour Long Blow Jobs Killing My Jaw

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Mon, 06/29/2009 - 12:11
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I've recently got into a typical 'teenage' relationship. 'Going out' with each other, holding hands, kissing when we think no one is looking, and generally having a great time with each other. Its not love, but its fun, and its just enjoyable. The other day, taking it a step further, I gave him head. I'm not claiming to be amazing at head, but I love giving it, and I've always had positive feedback when I do... Except, in this case, it took almost an hour to get him off, which has never happened to me before, so I was a little....Shocked. Not to mention the fact that in the end he just masturbated himself whilst I watched (which was still hot, but I was a little disapointed I couldnt do it myself). Although...He almost looked bored! (You can imagine I felt a little insulted...)

The general advice here I'm sure is to talk to him about it, which I will do, but are there anything tricks I can try out on him - experiment with different sensations, to see what he likes? I know it is hard to judge what a guy likes - they're all unique. Do you also have an ice-breaker to get talking about it? We've not been together that long, and despite me being very honest and open with regards to sex and related topics, the way he looks at me with such innocence (incidentaly he IS younger than me) tends to throw me sometimes. Although I am honest, I find it hard to word things sometimes, and I don't want to end up blurting out something that might insult him or bruise his ego (god forbid!)

Thanks, N

Dear N,

That's alot of concern about providing sexual pleasure for someone else. Not that I'm against it but I get the sense that you're being left out. If you're going to be giving blowjobs to please your boyfriend without getting any sexual pleasure of your own, you might want to consider charging him. Why don't you teach him how to be a great clit licker and take turns? By all means, communicate openly to each other what both of you prefer when it comes to orgasms.

Dr. Betty

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