First & Only Orgasm at 18 Riding Boyfriend's Knee

Dear Betty,

Okay, I am 42 years old and I have had 1 orgasm in my life, which was while I was still a virgin at 18 yrs old!! It was so overwhelming, I fainted afterwards. My boyfriend at the time and I were just making out in his car, I was riding his leg, and pretty soon this feeling started overtaking me, and he wouldn't let me stop riding his leg....and voila...my orgasm. From what I remember, it was amazing. Now I am 42 and haven't had one since then. I like to play with toys, I like reading erotic stories, I have even been to a sex therapist. She told me that I will probably NOT cum with my husband, and that I should work on it by myself first. I have read your book Sex for One, and ordered the two videos that you suggest for having orgasms...I am feeling very dejected and depressed that I might never have an orgasm again. Do you ever come out to the West Coast?

Dani

Dear Dani,

First, you must forget all about that first orgasm at 18 which by now has been exaggerated beyond anything humanly possible. Put it out of your mind. You have been using that memory as a template to judge all sexual sensations against. FORGET IT!!! Your unrealistic expectations are the results of the prohibition of childhood masturbation.

Along with my book and DVD's, you need to read my instructions under "First Time Orgasm" on the website and then follow them step by step. We have a slick search engine so just type in the above heading and the essay will appear. Many women don't figure out their sex lives  until they reach forty, fifty, sixty. I was 36 when I finally learned to combine clitoral stimulation with intercourse at the same time. So dump the blues and self-pity. You have years of happy orgasms ahead of you.

Now go back to my website and order the Magic Wand and follow my instructions on how to best use it. After you've had a dozen or so orgasms with it, invite your husband to join you for a threesome, you, the Wand and him. Save yourself a trip to NYC and an expensive session with me. Then email me with your good news.

Dr. Betty