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Feel Silly for Watching Porn

Published January 8th, 2009 by Betty Dodson
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Dear Betty,

I have some questions on sex and orgasms. I am 19 years old and I only had sex with only one boy, my boyfriend. I enjoy doing sexual things with him, but not really penetration. I recently watched a documentary on tv on porn-stars, where I saw your name and looked you up. I saw some of your podcasts and decided to try to masturbate while watching porn. I reach a state where I feel my clit vibrating, but I don't think this is the orgasm. Is it? what should I do more? after this point I feel silly and stupid for doing it and for watching porn. it this normal?

Dear DM,

Don't worry about what is "normal" instead just discover what feels good when you stimulate your clitoris. Go to Betty's Vaginal Barbell and read my instructions. Start getting in touch with you vaginal muscles while doing your clit with penetrating with your finger that has been covered in clean massage oil similar to the one I have in my sex shop. Then go to "First Orgasm" and read it more than once. Follow my directions and practice, practice, practice. I also recommend having your own mental fantasies instead of looking at porn. Go within and focus on your bodies sensations while you tell yourself a sexy story. Then get back to me with the good news.

Dr. Betty

 

 

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